Our Prayer

Our Prayer

Heavenly Father, I know that I have sinned against You and that my sins separate me from You. I am truly sorry. I now want to turn away from my sinful past and turn to You for forgiveness. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your Son, Jesus Christ, died for my sins, that He was raised from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become my Savior and the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You and to convict me when I sin. I pledge to grow in grace and knowledge of You. My greatest purpose in life is to follow Your example and do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

Tuesday, June 6, 2023

Class Lesson June 11, 2023

 

2.  Moses and Joshua 


Question 1:

Who was a big influence on you growing up?


THE POINT


Mentor and disciple those who come after you.


THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

Who influenced you as you were growing up? For me, it was Wally, who was my youth minister, but he became more than just a youth minister to me. Wally became a mentor and a life-long friend. Who I am today comes from the impact Wally had on my life. His greatest gift to me was time—time spent with him as I formed my faith and outlook on life.


That sharing of time didn’t stop when I left for college or entered full-time ministry. Wally became my go-to guy when I had questions about ministry, marriage, and life. He was always excited to hear from me. A few years before his death, Wally came to Nevada and spent five weeks doing counseling ministry in the church I pastored. During those weeks, we made memories driving my Jeep® through the mountains of northeastern Nevada. As a life-time friend, Wally poured into me from his experiences and wisdom. I am a product of his mentorship.


Likewise, God used Moses to mentor Joshua, who became a strong leader under God’s direction, and was a product of Moses’s mentorship.


WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?


Numbers 27:12-17

12 Then the Lord said to Moses, “Go up this mountain of the Abarim range and see the land that I have given the Israelites. 13 After you have seen it, you will also be gathered to your people, as Aaron your brother was. 14 When the community quarreled in the Wilderness of Zin, both of you rebelled against my command to demonstrate my holiness in their sight at the waters.” Those were the Waters of Meribah-kadesh in the Wilderness of Zin. 15 So Moses appealed to the Lord, 16 “May the Lord, the God who gives breath to all, appoint a man over the community 17 who will go out before them and come back in before them, and who will bring them out and bring them in, so that the Lord’s community won’t be like sheep without a shepherd.”


In this passage, God announced Moses’s impending death and Moses received a glimpse of the future that awaited the nation of Israel. God instructed him to climb to the top of the mountain range to view the land the nation would enter. This place was the future location prepared for the Israelites.


At the same time, Moses also received from God a reminder of a regretful scene from his past: his failure to obey God. Because of that disobedience, Moses was forbidden to enter the promised land (Num. 20:2-13). Despite any regret such a remembrance might have produced, Moses focused his thoughts on the future of the people of Israel. He was acutely aware of the waywardness of the people and their need for strong leadership in the future. Instead of complaining to God about the fact that he wouldn’t be allowed into the promised land, Moses spoke with God about the next leader of the nation.


Question 2: What might keep us from passing the torch to the next generation?


This is the mark of a great leader: being more concerned about others than about self. That is also a mark of a great mentor. Like Moses, mentors need an understanding of the brevity of life and the need to pass on wisdom to others. There will also be a willingness to put aside personal needs and preferences to help another grow and develop.


Moses didn’t try to dictate to God who the next leader should be. Moses had done his due diligence in mentoring the younger man, Joshua. In fact, Joshua had served under Moses from the earliest days of their time in the wilderness (Ex. 17:8-14). Nevertheless, Moses recognized it wasn’t his place to arbitrarily appoint Joshua as his successor. He would leave that to God’s directive.


Moses spoke directly with God about somebody to take over his leadership role. Most likely, that will not be the case with us. We won’t find ourselves in a position to replace ourselves, but that doesn’t excuse us from advising, encouraging, and investing time with someone we are mentoring. Our mentoring should certainly include spiritual growth formation—helping them grow in their relationship with Christ.


Moses saw the need and issued a petition to God to install a new leader over the nation to shepherd the people. Moses’s description of sheep without a shepherd was appropriate considering the history of waywardness of Israel. This new leader would have responsibility to lead the nation in war and in peace, in times of need and in times of plenty.


Numbers 27:18-20

18 The Lord replied to Moses, “Take Joshua son of Nun, a man who has the Spirit in him, and lay your hands on him. 19 Have him stand before the priest Eleazar and the whole community, and commission him in their sight. 20 Confer some of your authority on him so that the entire Israelite community will obey him.”


We might agree that Joshua was the natural choice for the replacement for Moses. He had been the servant of Moses from the days of the exodus event. Joshua served as Israel’s general in the battle with the Amalekites (Ex. 17:8-9). He had accompanied Moses when Moses received the tablets of stone on Mount Sinai (Ex. 24:12-13). He served as one of the twelve spies who went into the promised land to bring back a report on the land (Num. 13–14). Joshua and Caleb were the only spies to express absolute trust in God’s power to give victory to Israel.


While we may believe Joshua showed all the qualifications for being the successor to Moses, in the long run our opinion matters little. It was God’s assessment of Joshua that was essential. To God the essential thing about Joshua was that he was “a man who has the Spirit in him.” In other words, Joshua was deeply committed to following God and His directions. He was a man who was filled with the Spirit of God and who was obedient to the leading of the Holy Spirit. Joshua may have been Moses’s choice, but more importantly he was God’s choice to succeed Moses.


Verses 19-20 begins the transition of leadership. Moses was instructed to reveal God’s call on Joshua’s life to the people. Up to this point, Moses was the only leader the people had known. Because of that, it was critically important for Moses to endorse Joshua and lead the people to see God’s hand in the transition. Even more important was the passing on of authority to Joshua. The people would need to understand that they were to follow Joshua’s leadership in the same way they did with Moses.


Moses was instructed to commission Joshua in front of the people. A part of that public commissioning was the laying on of hands. This was an important practice of passing on blessing to another person. Examples of this are found throughout the Old and New Testaments. In Joshua’s case, the laying on of hands was a public recognition that Joshua was well qualified to take the lead in the years ahead. It would be viewed by the people as a divine affirmation that God was with Joshua.


Question 3: What are some ways others have helped you follow Jesus?


Numbers 27:21-23

21 “He will stand before the priest Eleazar who will consult the Lord for him with the decision of the Urim. He and all the Israelites with him, even the entire community, will go out and come back in at his command.” 22 Moses did as the Lord commanded him. He took Joshua, had him stand before the priest Eleazar and the entire community, 23 laid his hands on him, and commissioned him, as the Lord had spoken through Moses.


As God continued His instructions to Moses, He included details concerning the commissioning ceremony for Joshua. This would involve the services of the high priest Eleazar. When Aaron died, his son, Eleazar, succeeded his father in the position of high priest (Num. 20:22-29). The high priest represented God before the people and the people before God.


Question 4: Why do you think public affirmation of a person is important?


Eleazar would also play another role in the leadership of Joshua. He would use the Urim and Thummim to help Joshua determine the will of God. These two objects were kept in a pouch attached to the sacred breastplate worn by the high priest. This breastplate was viewed as the breastplate of judgment or decision (Ex. 28:15-30). What the Urim and Thummim looked like and how they were used is unclear, but they were associated with decision-making and seeking the will of God. They may have been used like the casting of lots, which is seen throughout Scripture.


The biblical record gives little detail on the length of the time between the commissioning ceremony and the death of Moses. Whatever time remained with Moses, it’s possible Joshua took on increased leadership responsibilities. He had watched Moses lead over the years, and now he began to share the leadership with Moses. Soon, Moses would be gone, and Joshua would assume the load of leadership for years to come.


Every church is just one generation away from extinction. If we don’t disciple others, mentor them, and walk alongside them in service, what will happen when we are gone? It is a joyous experience to mentor and disciple those who come after us, so let’s spend our precious time doing that.


Question 5: What can we learn from the relationship between Moses and Joshua?


Engage


PASSING THE BATON


Imagine your life as a relay race as you answer the following questions:


Write the name of a person who “passed the baton” of leadership to you:


Write the name of a person to whom you might “pass the baton” for future leadership:


Identify areas of training this next person might need to succeed:


1.


2.


3.


How could you help others see this person’s potential and accept your endorsement of his or her leadership?


“One generation will declare your works to the next and will proclaim your mighty acts.”

PSALM 145:4


LIVE IT OUT


We should mentor and disciple those who come after us. Choose one of the following applications:


Seek. Pray and seek God’s direction regarding someone you might help and encourage.

Affirm. Everyone needs encouragement. Write a note to someone you see who is beginning to grow and serve others in some capacity. Thank this person, encourage this individual, and offer to help as needed.

Equip. With whatever role you carry out in the service of the church and kingdom of God, create a list of things you would want to pass on about that service to someone else. Using the list, begin informally training someone else for a potential role.


Most of us can look back at an individual like Wally who played a critical role in our development. Hopefully that person was able to see some of their investment in us come to fruition. Let’s try to be that person in someone else’s life! 


Teacher Notes:





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How does one generation typically pass down knowledge to the next generation? 

 

Training the next generation comes naturally to parents and those with young children. Many people have grown into adults having learned good life skills from their parents, but they lack the guidance to follow Christ well. While pastors, church leaders, and Bible study leaders can play a key role in discipleship, every believer has a role to play in guiding someone younger to grow spiritually.

 

 

The naming of a successor to Moses. Passing leadership on to the next generation.

With God’s Word as a roadmap, transitioning from leadership can be a blessing to all.

God used Moses to mentor Joshua, who became a strong leader under God’s direction, and was a product of Moses’ mentorship.

 

 

Setting: The Book of Numbers derives its name from the “numbering” or census lists that comprise chapters 1 and 26. The Hebrew title of the book translates as “in the Desert” (1:1). The book presents an account of Israel’s forty-year wandering in the desert wilderness. While the book is independent it also supplements some of the accounts of the exodus and the journey toward the land of promise found in Exodus and Deuteronomy. A major point of the book is that God judged His people for their rebellion against Him but He reaffirms His plan to bring them into the Promised Land as a people in covenant relationship with Him. God has always been a God of grace.

The principle of co-leadership had been established in Israel since the nation’s time in Sinai, so when Moses adopted the suggestion of Jethro, his father-in-law and the priest of Midian, and enlisted capable people to assist in the administration of justice in settling disputes it was not a new idea (Ex. 18:13-27). The passage for this session focuses on another shift in leadership, concluding the tenure of Moses and beginning the tenure of Joshua as the primary leader of the people.

Transitional times are critical in most any organization. They may represent a fresh start, but they also can be an uncomfortable time, especially if new leadership also means new ways of doing things. Israel would face these challenges in its leadership change. “Preparing for a new life in a new land required stable transition between changing leadership roles, together with the effort to maintain as leader one whose response to the Lord had been exemplary.” 1 Such is the story in the account in Numbers 27:12-23 of the naming of a successor to Moses. Identifying who that leader would be early on would allow Moses to serve as a valued mentor to the one who would come after him—Joshua, the son of Nun.

 

 

Numbers 27:12-17

Then the Lord said to Moses, “Go up this mountain of the Abarim range and see the land that I have given the Israelites. After you have seen it, you will also be gathered to your people, as Aaron your brother was. When the community quarreled in the Wilderness of Zin, both of you rebelled against my command to demonstrate my holiness in their sight at the waters.” Those were the Waters of Meribah-kadesh in the Wilderness of Zin. So Moses appealed to the Lord, “May the Lord, the God who gives breath to all, appoint a man over the community who will go out before them and come back in before them, and who will bring them out and bring them in, so that the Lord’s community won’t be like sheep without a shepherd.”

 

What are some ways one generation typically passages down knowledge to the next generation? 

What are some attitudes that might keep someone from “passing the torch” to the next generation?

 

Seek God’s direction in choosing new leaders.

There is a future for which we are to prepare even though we may not live to see it. We are to do all we can to live as people who acclaim the holiness of the Lord God. Our sins against the Lord do not negate our saving relationship to Him, but they may deny us opportunities to serve Him. God’s people need effective, god-appointed leaders.

 

There is no other way to explain it, Moses made a mistake. God told Moses in Numbers 20:8 to speak to the rock and fulfill the thirst of the children of Israel, but Moses struck the rock, and his disobedient obedience prevented him from entering the promised land. God reminded Moses of this failure in Numbers 23:14. However, grace is extended to Moses, and despite being unable to go into the promised land, God granted him an opportunity to see the promised land. Moses’ reality reminds us of the seriousness associated with following God. However, at a closer glance, we see God extending unmerited grace to Moses despite the seemingly unfair judgment. Having the opportunity to see the promised land, Moses can visualize it as a testament to God's faithfulness to His people. May we embrace the reality that despite our disobedience, God is good, His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations (Psalm 100:5). 

 

Despite the devastating news delivered to Moses, he never wavered in his commitment to his role as a leader. Remaining unselfish, he thought more about others than he did himself when he could have exited to the sideline and pouted. In verse 15, Moses appealed to the Lord out of love for the community he served. He understood that entering the promised land was not his reality, but he continued to serve on behalf of the people in his care. Despite his mistake, God used a willing Moses to engage in the succession plan. In the text, Moses has the responsibility of laying his hands on Joshua (v.18), standing him before the priest and the whole community (v.19), and confirming his authority on him so that the entire community will obey him (v.20). Joshua received the greatest gift from his successor, his support. May that be so with us. When it is time for our transition, we would be willing participants in the successful transfer from one pastor to the next pastor, from one ministry leader to the next ministry leader. May we be honorable in our succession plan.

 

This is the mark of a great leader: being more concerned about others than about self. That is also a mark of a great mentor. Like Moses, mentors need an understanding of the brevity of life and the need to pass on wisdom to others. There will also be a willingness to put aside personal needs and preferences to help another grow and develop.

 

Moses spoke directly with God about somebody to take over his leadership role. Most likely, that will not be the case with us. We won’t find ourselves in a position to replace ourselves, but that doesn’t excuse us from advising, encouraging, and investing time with someone we are mentoring. Our mentoring should certainly include spiritual growth formation—helping them grow in their relationship with Christ.

 

Numbers 27:18-20

The Lord replied to Moses, “Take Joshua son of Nun, a man who has the Spirit in him, and lay your hands on him. Have him stand before the priest Eleazar and the whole community, and commission him in their sight. Confer some of your authority on him so that the entire Israelite community will obey him.”

 

What important quality did the Lord identify in him?

What important role was Moses to take in this transition of leadership?

 

 

Empower the one you mentor. 

God continues to call out people to lead His people in their service to Him. An effective leader needs the Spirit of God and the ability of leadership — in that order — to serve well. Mentoring includes giving affirmation, expressing trust, and empowering the one being mentored. Those who are to be led are to honor and respect those who lead.

 

Moses received the succession plan from the Lord. Joshua, slated to take his position as leader of the children of Israel and will escort them into the promised land, is in place. Will Moses obey God or disobey? Pharaoh’s heart was hardened, Samson disobeyed, Judas betrayed, and Thomas doubted. All these individuals represent the actions of those surrounded by God’s divine presence but decided to go their own way. Despite Moses having the succession plan, the decision to obey the voice of the Lord is still in his hands. In verse 22, Moses followed precisely the Lord’s request and established Joshua before the priest Eleazar. In verse 23, Moses submitted to the will of God by establishing Joshua in front of the people. Of all the things Moses accomplished, obeying the Lord’s voice is paramount to his ministry. May that be said of our ministries as well.

We might agree that Joshua was the natural choice for the replacement for Moses. He had been the servant of Moses from the days of the exodus event. Joshua served as Israel’s general in the battle with the Amalekites (Ex. 17:8-9). He had accompanied Moses when Moses received the tablets of stone on Mount Sinai (Ex. 24:12-13). He served as one of the twelve spies who went into the promised land to bring back a report on the land (Num. 13–14). Joshua and Caleb were the only spies to express absolute trust in God’s power to give victory to Israel.

 

Numbers 27:21-23

“He will stand before the priest Eleazar who will consult the Lord for him with the decision of the Urim. He and all the Israelites with him, even the entire community, will go out and come back in at his command.” Moses did as the Lord commanded him. He took Joshua, had him stand before the priest Eleazar and the entire community, laid his hands on him, and commissioned him, as the Lord had spoken through Moses.

 

Why is it important that others see your affirmation of next gen leaders?

 

Publicly affirm God’s work. 

A godly mentor hears and heeds the instructions of the Lord concerning those whom he mentors and who will take up the responsibilities of leadership after him. All we do — our going out and coming in — is to be in accordance to what the Lord desires and makes known. The Lord works in our lives to make Himself and His purpose, plans, and will manifest. Leadership and “followership” call for a cooperative spirit.

 

Why do you think public affirmation of a person is important?

 

Every church is just one generation away from extinction. If we don’t disciple others, mentor them, and walk alongside them in service, what will happen when we are gone? It is a joyous experience to mentor and disciple those who come after us, so let’s spend our precious time doing that.

 

“One generation will declare your works to the next and will proclaim your mighty acts.”

PSALM 145:4

 

 

Conclusion

May we all be reminded that the completion of God's work may begin with us but may not always end with us. Everyone is responsible for playing their role in the plan ordained by God. As a reminder, let us walk with Him and see each other as companions, not competitors.

Mentor and disciple those who come after you.

 

Learning From Those Younger Than Us

 

Mentoring is a word more associated with the workplace than the church, but I’d like us to consider the significance and impact mentoring can have in the life of the church. If mentoring is one person walking alongside others to train them, isn’t that what one Christian should do for another?

It’s called discipleship. It’s something every believer should be doing—and it’s something every believer should be doing in service to others. When we invest in the life of someone else, we’re not just touching their life and encouraging their growth in Christ, but we are investing in those whom that person will disciple!

Mentoring does not simply need to be “from the top down.” Consider what someone younger (or less experienced) might teach you. In the business world, some companies are delving into what is called “reverse mentoring.” According to the BBC, reverse mentoring was a technique developed in the 1990s to share technology skills. The Internet was coming into our mainstream culture, and Jack Welch, the CEO of General Electric, charged younger staff members to teach the older employees about the technology.

 

Companies are encouraging millennials to teach older employees about work trends and cultural issues. This has significant relevance to the church. With so many churches simply getting grayer with fewer and fewer young adults, we would do well to listen to the voices of the young adults in the church. Even as we have opportunities to disciple them in God’s Word and spiritual disciplines, they can teach us about their generation, how the culture has changed the way we communicate, and what is needed to build relationships with younger adults.

Reverse mentoring can dip into how we do Bible study and what we need to focus on in the Christian life. A few years ago, I led a group of young professionals, twentysomethings who were primarily graduate students. We were in the latter part of Ephesians, where Paul addressed relationships within both the family and the workforce (slaves/masters). This was a sharp group, and I was prepped and ready to discuss the issue of submission and love in the marriage relationship. (The group consisted of both single and married adults.)  What I was not prepared for was their interest and focus on what Paul said about slaves and masters!

From my Baby Boomer perspective, the bigger issue was how couples relate to each other. Work was work. What was there to discuss? Employees (i.e., slaves) were to be obedient and Christ-honoring toward their employers (i.e., masters). Period.

From their Millennial perspective, the more important matter was what Paul (and the other New Testament writers) had to say about the ethics and practice of slavery. Why didn’t Paul address the dehumanizing nature of slavery? What can we do about modern-day slavery and people who are oppressed?

Biblically, both marriage and the slavery/workplace issues are important, but with some unexpected reverse mentoring, I learned that the more pressing matter for me was not the same pressing matter for them.

We do not change the gospel. We do not change the teaching and doctrine of Scripture simply to fit the ever-changing cultural norms or the interests of a younger generation. But how we communicate God’s truth can change. How we seek to live out biblical truth can vary. Therefore, it behooves us older adults to learn from the younger adults.

Companies that practice reverse mentoring have also discovered that employee retention is greater. In companies where younger employees feel they are welcomed and listened to; those employees are less likely to search for greener pastures.

 

What would our churches look like if we started listening to the younger adults in our midst? Welcomed their input … and followed up by giving them opportunities to lead? They are not the church of the future. They are the church of today. Mentor them … and let them mentor you.




















Tuesday, May 30, 2023

New Series Begins June 4, 2023


Mentoring: Investing in Others


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One of the most important words in the English language is the word “relationships.” All of life is about relationships: our relationships to God and our relationships with others. We were created for a relationship with God, but we also are created to be in relationship with each other. Nothing in life is more critical than that.

Every follower of Christ is called on to mentor or disciple others, helping them grow in wisdom and maturity. Mentoring occurs in any number of contexts — within the family, the church, the workplace, the school setting, and anyplace we meet with others. 

This six-session study focuses on six different mentoring relationships seen in the Bible, challenging us to get involved in helping others develop their spiritual walk. We will discover valuable principles to guide us as we invest time and energy in the lives of others. 


Mentoring: Investing in Others

Session 1 Jethro and Moses Exodus 18:9-11,14-21

Session 2 Moses and Joshua Numbers 27:12-23

Session 3 Eli and Samuel 1 Samuel 2:22-26; 3:7-10,15-18

Session 4 Mordecai and Esther Esther 2:5-7; 4:8-17

Session 5 Barnabas and Paul Acts 9:26-28; 11:22-26; 15:36-40

Session 6 Paul and Timothy Acts 16:1-5; 2 Timothy 2:1-2; 3:10-12 


1

Jethro and Moses


Question 1:

What’s something you’ve learned the hard way?

THE POINT

Be ready to give and receive godly wisdom.

THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

We have a choice: we can learn from experiences, or we can learn from the experiences of others. Learning by our own experiences can often be painful, frustrating, and time consuming. Learning from others shortens the time frame and lessens the pain and frustration. A wise person allows others to go through the stress and learns from their experiences.

We need three types of people in our lives.

  1. Friends. Those who walk alongside us whom we can mutually support and encourage.
  2. Mentors. Those we learn from as they share wisdom and life lessons. They challenge us to grow and fulfill our potential.
  3. Those we mentor. Each of us ought to be mentoring others, someone with whom we can share our experiences. Everyone can profit from the wisdom and experiences of others, and we can share those things with others.

Today’s session looks at a brief incident of mentoring in the life of Moses. Without the mentoring that took place, Moses’s life could have been quite different.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?

Exodus 18:9-11

9 Jethro rejoiced over all the good things the Lord had done for Israel when he rescued them from the power of the Egyptians. 10 “Blessed be the Lord,” Jethro exclaimed, “who rescued you from the power of Egypt and from the power of Pharaoh. He has rescued the people from under the power of Egypt! 11 Now I know that the Lord is greater than all gods, because he did wonders when the Egyptians acted arrogantly against Israel.”

Moses, the great Israelite leader of the exodus out of Egypt, profited from a mentoring relationship with his father-in-law, Jethro, in the early years of the journey out of Egypt. We read about Moses first meeting Jethro (also called Reuel) in Exodus 2:16-21. After fleeing from the pharaoh in Egypt, Moses met Jethro in the land of Midian. Subsequently, Moses married one of Jethro’s daughters, Zipporah. For the next forty years, Moses tended the flocks of Jethro in the wilderness area of Midian.

After Moses encountered God at the burning bush (3:2), he decided to return to Egypt with his wife and family. At some point, either during that journey back to Egypt or after arriving in Egypt, Moses sent Zipporah and his two sons back to Jethro (18:2). The reason for this move remains a mystery, but perhaps Moses did it to protect them from the wrath of Pharaoh during those months before the exodus event began.

When we come to Exodus 18, Moses and the children of Israel had seen the plagues in Egypt and experienced the miraculous crossing of the Red Sea, water from the rock, and quail and manna in the wilderness. Now they were camped at Rephidim, a short distance from Mount Sinai, where the people would soon encounter God. It is at Rephidim that Jethro caught up with Moses to deliver Zipporah and her two sons to Moses.

Question 2:

What are some benefits of acknowledging God’s work?

Jethro is identified as the “priest of Midian” (v. 1). While no mention is made at this point concerning the particular god he represented, in verse 11 Jethro declared, “Now I know that the Lord is greater than all gods.” Hearing of all the ways God had acted on behalf of His people, Jethro acknowledged the greatness of Yahweh, and he sacrificed a burnt offering to God. A great meal was held in God’s presence that included Jethro, Moses, Aaron, and the elders of the tribes of Israel (v. 12). In this way, Jethro led the leaders of Israel in a joyous celebration of all that God had done for the nation to this point in time. Thus began a brief, yet critical, period of mentoring between Jethro and Moses.

The relationship of mentoring between Jethro and Moses was brief; yet, it was extremely profitable for Moses. Following the initial worship celebration of all God was doing for the children of Israel, Jethro would spend a few more days in the camp. During this time, he began to observe some things that disturbed him greatly.

Exodus 18:14-18

14 When Moses’s father-in-law saw everything he was doing for them he asked, “What is this you’re doing for the people? Why are you alone sitting as judge, while all the people stand around you from morning until evening?” 15 Moses replied to his father-in-law, “Because the people come to me to inquire of God. 16 Whenever they have a dispute, it comes to me, and I make a decision between one man and another. I teach them God’s statutes and laws.” 17 “What you’re doing is not good,” Moses’s father-in-law said to him. 18 “You will certainly wear out both yourself and these people who are with you, because the task is too heavy for you. You can’t do it alone.”

Difficulties in relationships happen. We are sinful people, and disagreements and disputes will occur. Such was the case among the children of Israel as they made their way from Egypt to the land God had promised them. When you consider the nation was comprised of thousands of families, you get an idea of the challenge facing Moses. He found himself spending his entire day making “a decision between one man and another.”

Through observation, Jethro discerned the difficult position that both Moses and the people were in. The people would stand all day waiting for their turn to speak with Moses, who, for his part, was occupied continually in these menial matters when, most likely, there were many more pressing matters to which he should have been attending. After all, Moses’s job was to shape this ragtag mob of former slaves into an organized nation that followed God.

Jethro offered a good approach to mentoring when he turned his observations into questions. “What is this you’re doing for the people? Why are you alone sitting as judge, while all the people stand around you from morning until evening?” Jethro wanted to hear from Moses’s lips an explanation for this overwhelming situation. The questions he asked may have helped Jethro understand the situation and may very well have proved to be eye-opening for Moses. Jethro’s inquiry may have proved to Moses the gravity of the situation. This is seen in the words of Jethro: “What you’re doing is not good.”

This is the work of anyone serving as a mentor. Through observations and questions, mentors can lead those being helped to come to their own understanding of the situation. Once they reach the point of seeing the problems or challenges, they are ready for further guidance in how to address the situation, but they first must be able to see the problem and articulate it.

Question 3:

What’s the difference between constructive criticism and just being critical?

Exodus 18:19-21

19 “Now listen to me; I will give you some advice, and God be with you. You be the one to represent the people before God and bring their cases to him. 20 Instruct them about the statutes and laws, and teach them the way to live and what they must do. 21 But you should select from all the people able men, God-fearing, trustworthy, and hating dishonest profit. Place them over the people as commanders of thousands, hundreds, fifties, and tens.”

Only after observing and listening to Moses did Jethro offer his advice. Jethro acknowledged the two functions identified by Moses in verse 16: (1) Moses represented the people before God and brought their cases to God; and (2) Moses was God’s representative before the people, teaching them the ways of God. These were certainly important tasks, but Moses didn’t have to go it alone.

Question 4:

What role does our group play in helping one another receive sound advice?

Jethro said Moses’s essential task was being a representative between God and the people of Israel. In this role, Moses was to “instruct them about the statutes and laws, and teach them the way to live and what they must do.”

Jethro next turned to the task that was consuming Moses’s time and keeping him from giving full attention to instructing and teaching the people: serving as a judge and mediator in the disagreements that had arisen. It was here that Jethro highlighted the greatest weakness in Moses’s approach to leadership, for his current approach would wear out both Moses and the people.

Jethro advised his son-in-law to divide the duty between capable men who could take this burden from Moses. These men were to be characterized by some essential traits. They were to be competent people with a firm trust in God. In addition, they were to be honest and not greedy for gain.

In any mentoring relationship, a major goal should include teaching concerning God and His ways. Mentors should lead others to understand the “way to live” that will please and honor God. Also, a good mentoring relationship should focus on not simply identifying problems, but on discovering solutions.

Question 5:

What can we learn from the relationship between Jethro and Moses?

RECEIVING COUNSEL

Moses’s father-in-law gave Moses some unsolicited advice. 

Who has the right to do that in your life? Cross out those who don’t. Put a star next to the person you would listen to the most:

ParentSiblingTherapistSpouse

Adult childrenIn-lawsPastorGroup leader

FriendsSocial media influencerBest-selling author

Other:


“Not until we have become humble and teachable, standing in awe of God’s holiness and sovereignty . . . acknowledging our own littleness, distrusting our own thoughts, and willing to have our minds turned upside down, can divine wisdom become ours.”

J. I. PACKER 



LIVE IT OUT

We should be ready to give and receive godly wisdom. Choose one of the following applications:

Pray. Over the next week, pray each day that God would either lay on your heart someone you want to learn from or someone you could help.

Seek. Intentionally search out someone who could serve as a mentor to you. Ask this person to prayerfully consider walking alongside you and helping you grow.

Invest. Choose to mentor someone else. Ask someone if he or she would be willing to walk alongside you and allow you to speak into his or her life (this should be someone of the same gender).


No one likes to learn lessons the hard way. It’s much better to find someone who’s been down the road you plan to take and learn from their wisdom. God places these individuals in our lives for a reason!

Teacher Notes:



No one is meant to grow in Christ on their own.

Christians need each other. We strengthen our own walk with Christ as we help others in their walk with Christ.

Mentoring is never mentioned in Scripture, but Jesus exemplified the principles of mentoring as He walked with His disciples.

There are other examples of mentoring recorded in Scripture that we are going to cover in this series.

 

About a month ago, surveillance cameras captured footage of a baby in a stroller rolling toward a busy highway. The frightening video quickly went viral.

Video: Run Away Stroller

Can you imagine the relief (and embarrassment) of the baby’s aunt? It’s possible that she didn’t notice the downhill slope of the pavement, but I’m sure she will never again leave a baby stroller without locking the brake system, even on flat ground. The multitude of viewers probably learned a valuable lesson as well. This certainly qualifies as a lesson learned the hard way.

 

What’s something you’ve had to learn the hard way?

 

The first thing we must realize is that we have a choice:

we can choose to learn from our own experiences, or we can learn from the experiences of others.

 

We need three types of people in our lives.

Friends. Those who walk alongside us we can mutually support and encourage.

Mentors. Those we learn from that share wisdom and life lessons.

Those we mentor. Someone with whom we can share our experiences.

Later we will see this played out in the Barnabas – Paul – and Timothy relationship.

Level 5 Leadership – Good to Great – Jim Collins

Good leaders surround themselves with good advisors. The best leaders are those who do not think too highly of themselves and have a teachable spirit. This applies to all of us regardless of our roles or positions in life. At the same time, we should not be hesitant to offer wise counsel to those who would benefit from hearing it. Each one of us needs a mentor, and each one of us can serve as a mentor.

 

 

Today’s lesson looks at a brief incident of mentoring in the life of Moses. Without the mentoring that took place, Moses’s life could have been quite different.

 

Setting: The book of Exodus could be the central book of the Old Testament because it records God’s act of saving His people from enslavement and establishing them as a covenant community. The central figure in this record is Moses, whom God called out to lead the Israelites from bondage in Egypt to freedom in the land promised to them by God. Moses’s task was not an easy one. He challenged the Pharaoh, led the people through difficult terrain, dealt with their criticisms and rebellion, and fashioned them into a nation in covenant with God. One of his major roles was to represent the people before God and convey God’s instructions to the people.

This session deals with one specific aspect of his leadership — that of a judicial authority called to settle disputes among the people and help them know how to apply the practical instructions contained in the statutes and laws of God. It was an important work, but a massive task; a task Moses tried to do himself despite the impossibility of sustaining that.

 

 Jethro and Moses

Exodus 18:9-11,14-21

 

 

Exodus 18:9-11

Jethro rejoiced over all the good things the Lord had done for Israel when he rescued them from the power of the Egyptians. “Blessed be the Lord,” Jethro exclaimed, “who rescued you from the power of Egypt and from the power of Pharaoh. He has rescued the people from under the power of Egypt! Now I know that the Lord is greater than all gods, because he did wonders when the Egyptians acted arrogantly against Israel.”

 

Acknowledge that God is at work.

Why is it so important to acknowledge God’s work?

When have you experienced believers celebrating God’s work in your church? How do God’s wonders happen in daily life? How have you seen God’s work at hand in your family?

 

Jethro is identified as the “priest of Midian” (v. 1). While no mention is made at this point concerning the particular god he represented, in verse 11 Jethro declared, “Now I know that the Lord is greater than all gods.” Hearing of all the ways God had acted on behalf of His people, Jethro acknowledged the greatness of Yahweh, and he sacrificed a burnt offering to God. A great meal was held in God’s presence that included Jethro, Moses, Aaron, and the elders of the tribes of Israel (v. 12). In this way, Jethro led the leaders of Israel in a joyous celebration of all that God had done for the nation to this point in time. Thus began a brief, yet critical, period of mentoring between Jethro and Moses.

 

The relationship of mentoring between Jethro and Moses was brief; yet it was extremely profitable for Moses. Following the initial worship celebration of all God was doing for the children of Israel, Jethro would spend a few more days in the camp. During this time, he began to observe some things that disturbed him greatly.

 

Exodus 18:14-18

When Moses’s father-in-law saw everything he was doing for them he asked, “What is this you’re doing for the people? Why are you alone sitting as judge, while all the people stand around you from morning until evening?” Moses replied to his father-in-law, “Because the people come to me to inquire of God. Whenever they have a dispute, it comes to me, and I make a decision between one man and another. I teach them God’s statutes and laws.” “What you’re doing is not good,” Moses’s father-in-law said to him. “You will certainly wear out both yourself and these people who are with you, because the task is too heavy for you. You can’t do it alone.”

 

How difficult is it for you to ask others for advice?

 

Offer constructive criticism.

What’s the difference between constructive criticism and just being critical?

 

Constructive criticism is essential to growth, but receiving it requires humility. Even in areas where we have experienced great success in the past, there is value to learning from others. The personal challenges (and even failures) we face can be an invitation to grow in our character. It is important, however, to choose our mentors wisely. As believers, we need godly people speaking into our lives, and it can be especially helpful to seek guidance from those who are further along in a particular area than we are.

 

An “outsider” may be able to observe weakness that we may not see ourselves because we are so close to the issue. Good leaders may have the best of intentions but lack the ability to carry out the work wisely. Even constructive criticism may hurt but the wise leader listens to the wise counsel of others who have a different perspective. Those who know better have a responsibility to help others do better.

 

Exodus 18:19-21

“Now listen to me; I will give you some advice, and God be with you. You be the one to represent the people before God and bring their cases to him. Instruct them about the statutes and laws, and teach them the way to live and what they must do. But you should select from all the people able men, God-fearing, trustworthy, and hating dishonest profit. Place them over the people as commanders of thousands, hundreds, fifties, and tens.”

 

Encourage with sound counsel.

What do you find challenging about giving advice?

 

What can keep us from responding to good advice?


Effective mentors not only identify weaknesses, but they also offer sound advice on how to make improvements. Properly addressing the details of the work will help a leader stay focused on the primary tasks of his work. No one person can do everything; nor should he try. We do well to seek out others to be involved in the work of serving the Lord. Godly work calls for godly workers.

 

 

RECEIVING COUNSEL

Moses’s father-in-law gave Moses some unsolicited advice.

Who has the right to do that in your life? Cross out those who don’t. Put a star next to the person you would listen to the most:

 

Parent    Sibling    Spouse   Adult children   

In-laws    Pastor    Group leader

Friends  Co-workers

  

 

What can we learn from the relationship between Jethro and Moses?

Jethro, Moses’s father-in-law, observed Moses in action and offered him sound advice on how to improve the effectiveness of his work. Moses proved himself as a wise leader by being willing to listen to Jethro’s counsel and implement his suggestions. We too can learn a valuable lesson in this session. We need not only to be ready to give advice, but we also need to be willing to receive it.

 

 

“Not until we have become humble and teachable, standing in awe of God’s holiness and sovereignty . . . acknowledging our own littleness, distrusting our own thoughts, and willing to have our minds turned upside down, can divine wisdom become ours.”

J. I. PACKER

 

Mentoring

Mentoring isn’t helping shape another person to be more like you. It’s helping shape and form another person into the image of Jesus. It’s putting 2 Timothy 2:2 into practice, which says, “What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, commit to faithful men who will be able to teach others also.”

 

Some tips for shaping the next generation to follow Jesus with their whole hearts, minds, souls, and strength? Here are four suggestions.

 

1. POINT TO GOD’S WORD

God has given us tools to use when mentoring others. The first is His Word. If you want to help a person look more like Jesus, direct them to read, hear, study, meditate, and memorize God’s Word.

Second Timothy 3:16 reminds us, “All Scripture is inspired by God, and is profitable for teaching, for rebuking, for correcting, for training in righteousness.” Being a mentor isn’t just about offering advice, although sometimes that’s needed. It’s more about pointing them to God’s truth and giving direction for someone’s life.

 

2. PRAY

The second tool you have is prayer. If you want to mentor someone, pray for them. Pray specifically for their needs, spiritual growth, relationships, and for them to become a person who will continue to make disciples. When Jesus gave the Great Commission in Matthew 28, He instructed His disciples to make disciples and to remember His presence.

 

Praying for the person you’re mentoring is a reminder of God’s work and direction in their life. Pray for the person you’re mentoring when you’re with them. When you aren’t with them in person, pray for them by sending them a prayer or Scripture. Write a note or email them specific ways you’re praying and rejoice with them when prayers are answered.

 

3. LEVERAGE YOUR LIFE EXPERIENCES

The third tool or tip for mentoring others is life experience. God has uniquely designed your life experiences in a way that you can use both the good and the bad to encourage others. We are reminded in 2 Corinthians 1:4, “He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any kind of affliction, through the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”

 

4. WORK TOGETHER

The final tool for mentoring others is ministry opportunities. Mentoring naturally happens when you work alongside someone else for kingdom purposes.

 

I still remember taking my daughter on an international mission trip. We shared a room with two senior adult women. For a week, my daughter not only shared space with these two women, but she heard them share the gospel, minister to women at an event, and share some distinct cultural differences. I’m grateful for those who not only let us watch them “do” ministry but also ask younger men and women to help and learn in the midst of ministry projects.

 

Jesus made His style of mentoring clear: He led so that we can follow. He said, “If anyone will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross and follow me” (Matthew 16:24). Because He is our leader and we are to follow Him, Christian mentoring is a process dependent upon submission to Christ. Neither the mentor nor the candidate controls the relationship. As such, the process is best characterized by mutual sharing, trust, and enrichment as the life and work of both participants is changed. The mentor serves as a model and a trusted listener. The mentor relies on the Holy Spirit to provide insight, change lives, and teach through the modeling process.

The Apostle Paul spelled out mentoring as his leadership model very simply. “Follow my example as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). “Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me — put it into practice” (Philippians 4:9a). In essence, he is saying, “Let me mentor you. Let me be your role model.” He reminds the new Christians at Thessalonica to “follow our example” (2 Thessalonians 3:7). Example. Teach. Model. These are all facets of mentoring which are indispensable in developing fully devoted followers of Jesus and in transmitting the faith from one generation to the next. It goes without saying that if mentors expect others to follow their example, they must be wholeheartedly committed to following Christ. Any hint of hypocrisy — “do what I say, not what I do” — will be detrimental to both the mentor and his charge.

 

 

  

PLAYING A MASTERPIECE TOGETHER

I once heard a story of a young man who wanted to learn how to play the violin. As he took lessons, he had the opportunity to practice on a famous (and very expensive) Stradivarius instrument. Nervous and awkward as he held the bow, a master violinist came behind the novice and placed his hands on top of the apprentice’s shaky fingers. He told him, “I will hold your hands and help you play. Together we will play a masterpiece on this masterpiece.” The mentor guided the hands of the learner, and together they performed a beautiful song.

 

You and I have this same opportunity as we mentor others. Let’s come beside them, place our lives next to theirs, and build beautiful relationships that last a lifetime.

 

Be ready to give and receive godly wisdom.

 

  

 

Should a Christian be involved in mentoring?

The word “mentor” is defined as “a wise and trusted counselor or teacher.” Although “mentoring” doesn’t appear in the Bible, Scripture does give us numerous examples of mentoring. Moses was mentored by his father-in-law Jethro, first as son-in-law and then as a leader (Exodus 18). The mentoring relationship between Eli and Samuel prepared Samuel for the tasks and responsibilities that were his after Eli’s death (1 Samuel 1–4). Jesus mentored His disciples (Luke 9), and both Barnabas and Paul excelled in mentoring (Acts 9–15).

 

Jesus made His style of mentoring clear: He led so that we can follow. He said, “If anyone will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross and follow me” (Matthew 16:24). Because He is our leader and we are to follow Him, Christian mentoring is a process dependent upon submission to Christ. Neither the mentor nor the candidate controls the relationship. As such, the process is best characterized by mutual sharing, trust, and enrichment as the life and work of both participants is changed. The mentor serves as a model and a trusted listener. The mentor relies on the Holy Spirit to provide insight, change lives, and teach through the modeling process.

The Apostle Paul spelled out mentoring as his leadership model very simply. “Follow my example as I follow the example of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). “Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me — put it into practice” (Philippians 4:9a). In essence, he is saying, “Let me mentor you. Let me be your role model.” He reminds the new Christians at Thessalonica to “follow our example” (2 Thessalonians 3:7). Example. Teach. Model. These are all facets of mentoring which are indispensable in developing fully devoted followers of Jesus and in transmitting the faith from one generation to the next. It goes without saying that if mentors expect others to follow their example, they must be wholeheartedly committed to following Christ. Any hint of hypocrisy — “do what I say, not what I do” — will be detrimental to both the mentor and his charge.

 

Not only Jesus and the apostles, but elders in the local church also do their work by mentoring. Peter commands, “Be examples to the flock” (1 Peter 5:3), and Paul explains to the elders at Ephesus, “You know how I lived the whole time I was with you” (Acts 20:17). In other words, Paul is telling the elders, “I showed you, now you show them.” In all truth, if a Christian leader is not mentoring someone, to that degree he or she is not living up to his or her calling.

 

Of course, God has filled the body of Christ with many potential mentors besides those who are named as elders or shepherds. The official church leaders cannot personally meet all the mentoring needs of everyone. While it may not be possible for shepherds to personally, intentionally, hands-on mentor each sheep that needs mentoring, they are to help these needy sheep find godly mentors. To provide for the mentoring needs of their local community of faith, the leaders must be intentional, continually expanding the circle of mentors by “equipping others” to mentor.

 

 

 

 

What is the importance of finding good role models?

 A role model is someone who provides us with an example for living and choice-making; someone we desire to follow and emulate, for good or ill. Most of us have someone we look up to be it a teacher, parent, friend, pastor, or a celebrity.

The Bible recognizes the influence of role models. Parents are natural role models: “Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction / and do not forsake your mother’s teaching” (Proverbs 1:8). Church leaders are role models of righteousness: “In everything set them an example by doing what is good” (Titus 2:7). And teachers wield great influence in shaping lives: “Everyone who is fully trained will be like their teacher” (Luke 6:40).

If we are unwise in our choice of role models, we run the risk of being led astray and to compromise our beliefs and morals. Proverbs 13:20 warns, “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” Thus, the Bible stresses the importance of finding not only a good role model but a godly one.

Jesus is the perfect role model, of course. Although He suffered the same temptations we do, He remained sinless throughout His life (Hebrews 4:15). Jesus spent much of His spare time in conversation with His Father (Matthew 14:23; Mark 1:35), He showed love and compassion (Luke 7:13; Matthew 15:32), and He worked hard (John 5:17; Matthew 9:35). Jesus, the Son of Man, is a role model to all, and there is none better to follow. We are to “follow in his steps” (1 Peter 2:21).

Throughout the Bible, the Lord often called imperfect people to act as role models, including Moses, Elijah, King David, Simon Peter, and many others. The apostle Paul often spoke of his important job as a role model for the early church (1 Corinthians 4:16; 11:1; Philippians 3:17; 1 Thessalonians 1:5–7; 2 Thessalonians 3:7–9). Peter warned of false teachers within the church who would be negative role models: “Many will follow their depraved conduct and will bring the way of truth into disrepute” (2 Peter 2:2).

When it comes to finding a good role model, a good thing to consider is whether the person you look up to consistently seeks to imitate Christ (see 1 Corinthians 11:1; 1 Peter 2:21). Does this person display the fruit of the indwelling Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23)? Does he or she strive to live in harmony with others (Romans 12:16)? No human is perfect, and everyone will falter at some point in their lives (Romans 3:23), but if you can answer “yes” to these questions, then you have probably found a good and godly role model.