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Our Prayer
Our Prayer
Heavenly Father, I know that I have sinned against You and that my sins separate me from You. I am truly sorry. I now want to turn away from my sinful past and turn to You for forgiveness. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your Son, Jesus Christ, died for my sins, that He was raised from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become my Savior and the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You and to convict me when I sin. I pledge to grow in grace and knowledge of You. My greatest purpose in life is to follow Your example and do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.
New Series: Being Light in a Dark World: A Study of 1 John
Sermon Recap
John moves from abiding in Christ to the hope
of Christ’s return. Believers are already children of God, yet what they will
be, has not fully appeared. When Christ appears, they will be like Him because
they will see Him as He is. That future hope changes present behavior: everyone
who hopes in Christ purifies himself. John then draws a sharp contrast between
practicing righteousness and practicing sin. He is not saying a Christian never
sins; the letter has already made that impossible. He is describing the settled
direction and practice of a life. Jesus appeared to take away sins and destroy
the works of the devil, so those born of God cannot be at peace with a life
defined by sin.
1 John 2:28-3:10
[28] And now, little children, abide in him,
so that when he appears we may have confidence and not shrink from him in shame
at his coming. [29] If you know that he is righteous, you may be sure that
everyone who practices righteousness has been born of him. [1] See what kind of
love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and
so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know
him. [2] Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet
appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we
shall see him as he is. [3] And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself
as he is pure.
[4] Everyone who makes a practice of sinning
also practices lawlessness; sin is lawlessness. [5] You know that he appeared
in order to take away sins, and in him there is no sin. [6] No one who abides
in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or
known him. [7] Little children, let no one deceive you. Whoever practices
righteousness is righteous, as he is righteous. [8] Whoever makes a practice of
sinning is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The
reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the works of the devil. [9] No
one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God’s seed abides in him; and
he cannot keep on sinning, because he has been born of God. [10] By this it is
evident who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil:
whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is the one who does
not love his brother. (ESV)
Discussion Questions
What stands out to you most in 1 John
2:28-3:10?
How does being called a child of God shape
your sense of identity?
Why should hope in Christ’s return affect
present choices?
Where would living “ready” change your
behavior?
What does it mean to you to be called a child
of God?
How does assurance of future transformation
give hope in present struggles?
Why is it dangerous to treat sin casually?
How can we distinguish ongoing repentance
from settled rebellion?
What sin are you actively fighting right now?
What evidence of God’s transforming work can
you thank Him for?
Closing Thoughts
Holiness is not withdrawal from mission; it
gives credibility to mission. A church that talks about the transforming power
of Jesus while making peace with sin sends a confused message. As we pursue
purity, we show that Christ not only forgives but changes people. Encourage one
another this week to fight sin from the security of being God’s children.
New Series: Being Light in a Dark World: A Study of 1 John
Sermon Recap
John warns the church that deception does not
only come from outside the church. False teachers had departed from the
community and denied the truth about Jesus. John calls their teaching
“antichrist” because it opposes the true identity of Christ. The issue is not
merely theological trivia; what we believe about Jesus determines whether we
truly know the Father. Believers are not left defenseless. John calls them to
let what they heard from the beginning abide in them, and he reminds them that
they have an anointing from the Holy One. The Spirit does not lead us away from
the gospel into novelty; He confirms the truth about Jesus and helps believers
remain in Him.
1 John 2:18-27
Warning Concerning Antichrists
[18] Children, it is the last hour, and as
you have heard that antichrist is coming, so now many antichrists have come. Therefore,
we know that it is the last hour. [19] They went out from us, but they were not
of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they
went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us. [20] But you
have been anointed by the Holy One, and you all have knowledge. [21] I write to
you, not because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and
because no lie is of the truth. [22] Who is the liar but he who denies that
Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, he who denies the Father and the
Son. [23] No one who denies the Son has the Father. Whoever confesses the Son
has the Father also. [24] Let what you heard from the beginning abide in you.
If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, then you too will abide in
the Son and in the Father. [25] And this is the promise that he made to us — eternal
life.
[26] I write these things to you about those
who are trying to deceive you. [27] But the anointing that you received from
him abides in you, and you have no need that anyone should teach you. But as
his anointing teaches you about everything, and is true, and is no lie — just
as it has taught you, abide in him. (ESV)
Discussion Questions
What stands out to you most in 1 John
2:18-27?
What makes false teaching spiritually
dangerous?
Why does John make the identity of Jesus the
central test?
What modern messages about Jesus might sound
attractive while changing who He is?
What does it look like practically to let the
gospel “abide” in us?
How do the Word and the Spirit work together
in discernment?
What helps you remain steady when persuasive
voices disagree?
How can familiarity with Scripture protect us
from deception?
Where do you feel pressure to soften or
redefine truth about Jesus?
What practice would help the gospel abide
more deeply in you this week?
Closing Thoughts
A dark world is full of spiritual claims,
confident voices, and competing versions of Jesus. Living on mission requires
both conviction and discernment. We do not need to be afraid of every question,
but we do need to know the gospel well enough to recognize a counterfeit. As a
group, encourage one another to test teaching by Scripture and to speak about
the real Jesus with clarity and grace.
New Series: Being Light in a Dark World: A Study of 1 John
Sermon Recap
John now confronts a competing love. We
cannot claim to love the Father while giving our hearts to a world organized in
rebellion against Him. “The world” in this passage does not mean people or
God’s good creation; it describes a system of desires, values, and pride that
pulls us away from God. John names three expressions of that worldliness: the
desires of the flesh, the desires of the eyes, and the pride of life. All three
promise satisfaction, but none can last. The world is passing away, but the one
who does the will of God abides forever. Walking in the light requires learning
to love what lasts more than what is fading.
1 John 2:15-17
Do Not Love the World
[15] Do not love the world or the things in
the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
[16] For all that is in the world — the desires of the flesh and the desires of
the eyes and pride of life — is not from the Father but is from the world. [17]
And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will
of God abides forever. (ESV)
Discussion Questions
What stands out to you most in 1 John
2:15-17?
Which of John’s three categories of desire is
most recognizable in our culture?
How can good things become rival loves?
What helps us recognize worldliness when it
looks normal?
What does “the world” mean in this passage?
Which of the desires in verse 16 do you find
most subtle?
How can Christians enjoy God’s good gifts
without loving the world?
Where are you most tempted to seek identity
from what you have, how you look, or what others think?
What does doing the will of God look like in
a specific area of your life right now?
What is one temporary pursuit you may need to
hold more loosely?
Closing Thoughts
Our culture constantly disciples our desires.
Living on mission means we cannot simply mirror whatever the world celebrates.
When believers display contentment, self-control, humility, generosity, and
obedience, we offer a visible alternative to a life built on appetite,
appearance, and status. Ask as a group: Where are we most tempted to look just
like the world around us?
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Teacher Notes:
Imagine for a moment...
Our lesson this morning is titled:
Success is measured by what you achieve. We are taught that our worth is determined
by our career, income, accomplishments, education, and professional status. The
world's message: Climb the ladder. Become somebody. Make a name for yourself.
God's perspective: Our identity is found in Christ, not in our accomplishments.
(Philippians 3:7–8)
Happiness comes from having more. Advertising, entertainment, and social
media constantly encourage us to want the newest, biggest, and best. The
world's message: You will be happy when you have what you don't currently have.
God's perspective: Godliness with contentment is great gain. (1 Timothy 6:6–8)
Personal pleasure comes before obedience. Our culture often encourages people to
follow their feelings, satisfy their desires, and do whatever makes them happy.
The world's message: If it feels good, do it. You deserve it. God's
perspective: We are called to deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow
Jesus. (Luke 9:23)
Appearance and popularity determine our value. Social media, celebrity culture, and the
entertainment industry encourage us to measure ourselves by how we look, how
many people admire us, and how much attention we receive. The world's message:
Make yourself attractive, influential, and admired. God's perspective: God
looks at the heart, not outward appearance. (1 Samuel 16:7)
Money provides security. We are encouraged to accumulate wealth,
protect our assets, and build financial independence as though money can
guarantee our future. The world's message: The more you have, the safer and
more secure you will be. God's perspective: Our ultimate security is in God,
not our possessions. (Matthew 6:19–21)
Being busy means being important. Our culture celebrates packed schedules,
constant activity, and productivity. Even good things can crowd out our
relationship with God. The world's message: Stay busy. Keep producing. Don't
slow down. God's perspective: We need to make room for what matters most,
including time with Him. (Luke 10:38–42)
Truth is whatever you believe it to be. Our culture increasingly treats truth as
personal preference rather than something established by God. The world's
message: Decide for yourself what is right and wrong. God's perspective: God's
Word is truth, and our lives should be shaped by it. (John 17:17)
Worldliness isn't necessarily about what we
have; it's about what has our hearts. A person can have considerable wealth and
still love God wholeheartedly. Another person can have very little and be
consumed with envy and materialism.
We become comfortable with what we once
questioned. Things that once
troubled our conscience gradually become acceptable because we see them
everywhere.
Language and entertainment that don't honor
God.
Attitudes toward marriage, sexuality, and
relationships that contradict Scripture.
Behaviors we once recognized as wrong but now
excuse as normal.
The danger: What we repeatedly expose
ourselves to can eventually influence what we accept. Romans 12:2 warns us not
to conform to the pattern of this world.
We begin measuring ourselves by the world's
standards. We start comparing our
homes, income, vacations, possessions, appearance, and accomplishments with
those around us. We may not even realize how much our sense of satisfaction
depends on keeping up with others. The danger: Gratitude gets replaced by comparison,
and contentment gets replaced by wanting more.
We allow good things to become ultimate
things. There is nothing
inherently wrong with wanting to provide for our families, succeed
professionally, enjoy retirement, or have financial security. But good things
can become competing priorities when they consistently take precedence over
God.
For example:
Work becomes more important than worship.
Financial security becomes more important
than trusting God.
Recreation becomes more important than
spiritual growth.
Family activities become so consuming that we
neglect our relationship with Christ.
The danger: Something good gradually takes
the place of something greater.
We become more concerned about pleasing
people than pleasing God. We may
compromise our convictions because we don't want to offend someone, appear
different, or be excluded. Eventually, the opinions of others begin to carry
more weight than God's Word. Galatians 1:10 reminds us that we cannot make
pleasing people our highest priority while seeking to serve Christ.
We become spiritually distracted. We don't necessarily abandon God. We simply
become too busy for Him. Prayer becomes occasional. Bible reading becomes
sporadic. Church attendance becomes optional. Our spiritual lives gradually
move from the center to the margins. The danger: We can remain religiously
active while our hearts become increasingly attached to the things of this
world.
Practice gratitude rather than constantly
wanting more. Enjoy what
God has provided instead of measuring your happiness by what you don't have.
Thank God for your home rather than wishing
it were bigger.
Enjoy your possessions without becoming
preoccupied with acquiring more.
Appreciate what you have rather than
comparing yourself with others.
Scripture: 1 Timothy 6:6–8
Remember that everything belongs to God. We are stewards, not owners. Our
possessions, abilities, opportunities, and resources are gifts entrusted to us.
When we recognize God as the source of our blessings, we become less likely to
worship the blessings themselves. Scripture: Psalm 24:1
Hold earthly things loosely. Enjoy the good things of life, but don't
allow them to determine your identity, happiness, or security. Ask yourself:
Could I lose this possession, position, or opportunity and still find my joy
and identity in Christ? Scripture: Matthew 6:19–21
Make generosity a regular part of your life. One of the best ways to prevent possessions
from possessing us is to become generous. Give to others. Help someone in need.
Support God's work. Share what you have. Generosity reminds us that life isn't about
accumulating more but using what God has given us to bless others. Scripture: 1
Timothy 6:17–19
Establish priorities that protect your
relationship with God. Don't allow
the demands of everyday life to crowd out the things that matter most. Make
time for prayer, Scripture, worship, fellowship, and service. These aren't
simply religious activities; they help keep our hearts properly focused.
Scripture: Matthew 6:33
Learn to enjoy life without depending on it
for fulfillment. Enjoy your
family, friendships, vacations, hobbies, food, music, and the beauty of
creation. These are wonderful gifts from God. But remember that none of them
can provide the lasting satisfaction that comes from knowing Him. Scripture:
Ecclesiastes 3:12–13
I would argue that the desires of the eyes
are probably the most influential temptation in our culture today, although all
three are closely connected.
1.The
desires of the eyes — "I
want what I see." We live in a visually driven culture. Television,
advertising, social media, and the internet constantly expose us to things we
don't have but are encouraged to want.
We see other people's homes, vacations, cars,
and lifestyles.
We compare our lives with carefully edited
versions of other people's lives.
We are encouraged to believe that happiness
comes from acquiring the next thing.
We develop dissatisfaction with what we have
because we're constantly exposed to what others have.
The problem: What we see can create desires
we didn't previously have. Think about social media. Someone can be perfectly
content with their life until they see someone else's vacation, new home,
retirement lifestyle, or material possessions. Suddenly, their own blessings
seem less satisfying. That's the power of the desires of the eyes.
2.The pride
of life — "I want to be
somebody." I would put this a very close second. Our culture places
enormous emphasis on:
Recognition and popularity.
Professional achievement and status.
Personal image and reputation.
Influence and being admired.
Being right, being important, and being in
control.
The danger is that we begin measuring our
worth by how others see us rather than how God sees us. The problem: We can
become more concerned with building our own kingdom than serving God's kingdom.
3.The
desires of the flesh — "I
want what feels good." This temptation is also extremely influential. Our
culture increasingly promotes instant gratification:
Sexual pleasure without commitment.
Entertainment without boundaries.
Comfort without sacrifice.
Food, alcohol, and other indulgences without
self-discipline.
Following our feelings rather than submitting
our desires to God.
The problem: We begin allowing our appetites
to determine our behavior rather than allowing God's Word to direct our lives.
It turns gratitude into dissatisfaction. We can have a wonderful home, a loving
family, good friends, and enough resources to live comfortably. But when we
compare ourselves with someone who has more, our blessings suddenly seem less
significant. We stop appreciating what we have because we're focused on what we
don't have.
It creates envy and jealousy. Instead of celebrating someone else's
success, we quietly resent it. Someone gets a promotion, buys a new home, takes
an expensive vacation, or experiences something wonderful. Rather than
rejoicing with them, we wonder why we don't have the same opportunities.
Proverbs 14:30: "A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots
the bones." (NIV)
It makes us pursue things we don't really
need. Comparison can convince us that we need a
bigger house, a newer car, nicer clothes, or a more impressive lifestyle.
Sometimes we don't even want these things until we see someone else enjoying
them. We begin pursuing someone else's definition of happiness.
It makes us measure our worth by the wrong
standards. We begin evaluating
ourselves by our income, possessions, appearance, accomplishments, or
popularity. But God doesn't measure our worth that way. 1 Samuel 16:7:
"People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the
heart." (NIV)
It distracts us from God's purpose for our
own lives. When we're constantly
looking at someone else's circumstances, we can lose sight of what God is doing
in our own lives. We become so busy wishing we had someone else's opportunities
that we neglect the opportunities God has placed before us.
A biblical illustration: Peter and John
Consider John 21:20–22. After Jesus tells
Peter about the future that awaits him, Peter looks at John and asks Jesus,
"Lord, what about him?" Essentially, Peter wants to know what will
happen to someone else. Jesus responds: "If I want him to remain alive
until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me." (John 21:22,
NIV) That's a powerful answer. Jesus essentially tells Peter: Don't concern
yourself with someone else's journey. You follow Me. God hasn't called us to
live someone else's life. He's called us to be faithful with the life He's
given us.
Pride makes us believe we're better than we
really are. We tend to judge
ourselves by our intentions while judging others by their actions. We excuse
our shortcomings but are quick to identify someone else's. The danger: We
develop a higher opinion of ourselves than we should. Romans 12:3 reminds us
not to think of ourselves more highly than we ought.
Pride disguises itself as confidence. There is nothing wrong with having
confidence in our abilities or being thankful for our accomplishments. But
confidence becomes pride when we begin believing our success is primarily the
result of our own abilities, intelligence, or hard work. We forget that our
abilities and opportunities ultimately come from God. Deuteronomy 8:17–18 warns
against saying, "My power and the strength of my hands have produced this
wealth for me."
Pride makes it difficult to admit we're wrong. Pride tells us we must defend ourselves,
justify our decisions, and have the last word. Instead of saying, "I was
wrong," we make excuses or shift the blame. The danger: We become more
interested in protecting our reputation than correcting our behavior.
Pride makes us dependent on the approval of
others. We want recognition,
appreciation, admiration, and respect. We may even do good things, not because
we genuinely want to serve others, but because we want people to notice. The
danger: Our motivation becomes more about receiving glory than giving glory to
God.
Pride can hide behind religious activity. This is particularly important for
Christians. We can become proud of how much we know about the Bible, how long
we've attended church, how much we serve, or how spiritually mature we believe
ourselves to be. We can even become judgmental toward Christians who don't
measure up to our expectations. Remember the Pharisee and the tax collector in
Luke 18:9–14. The Pharisee was proud of his religious accomplishments, while
the tax collector simply acknowledged his need for God's mercy. Jesus made it
clear which man went home justified before God.
Pride prevents us from recognizing how much
we need God. Perhaps this
is the deepest problem. When things are going well, we can begin believing we
are self-sufficient. Prayer becomes less urgent, dependence on God becomes less
obvious, and gratitude can gradually disappear. Pride says, "I've got
this." Humility says, "Lord, I need You."
Relationships become more valuable than
possessions. We begin to
realize that the memories we treasure most usually involve people, not things.
Family gatherings, conversations with old friends, time with grandchildren, and
moments shared with loved ones become increasingly precious. We discover that
relationships are a greater treasure than the things we accumulate.
Time becomes more valuable than money. When we're younger, we sometimes think we
have unlimited time. We put off phone calls, visits, apologies, and meaningful
conversations. As we get older, we recognize that time is one resource we
cannot replenish. We become less concerned with how much we can accumulate and
more concerned with how we spend our days.
Success takes on a different meaning. Titles, promotions, professional
recognition, and financial accomplishments may have once defined success. But
eventually, we begin asking different questions:
Did I make a difference in someone's life?
Was I a good spouse, parent, grandparent, and
friend?
Did I honor God with the opportunities He
gave me?
Did I leave something worthwhile behind?
Success becomes less about what we
accomplished and more about how faithfully we lived.
We become more appreciative of ordinary
blessings. A beautiful sunrise, a
good conversation, a family meal, a peaceful evening, or simply another day of
life can become extraordinary gifts. We begin to recognize that many of life's
greatest blessings are not things money can buy.
We become less concerned about what people
think. As we mature, we often
become less interested in impressing others. We realize that trying to satisfy
everyone's expectations is exhausting, and that other people's opinions don't
determine our worth. We become more interested in God's approval than man's
applause.
We recognize the importance of forgiveness
and letting go. Life teaches
us that holding onto resentment, bitterness, and old disagreements can rob us
of peace. We begin to understand that some things simply aren't worth carrying
for the rest of our lives. We learn to forgive, make peace where possible, and
appreciate the relationships we still have.
Eternity becomes more real. Perhaps this is the most significant
change. As we get older, we become increasingly aware that earthly life is
temporary. Our priorities begin to shift toward our relationship with God, our
spiritual legacy, and the eternal promises we have in Christ. We become less
focused on what we are leaving behind and more focused on what lies ahead. Scripture:
2 Corinthians 4:16–18.
Continue
growing spiritually. We never reach an age where we have learned
everything God wants to teach us.
Spend
time in His Word.
Deepen
your prayer life.
Remain
teachable.
Allow
God to continue shaping your character.
Scripture:
2 Peter 3:18
Become
intentional about passing along your faith. One of the greatest
opportunities of older adulthood is investing in the next generation.
Share
your testimony with children and grandchildren.
Tell
younger believers how God has been faithful.
Encourage
those who are beginning their spiritual journey.
Model
what a lifetime of faithfulness looks like.
Scripture:
Psalm 71:17–18
Our
greatest legacy may not be what we leave to the next generation, but what we
leave in them.
Use
your experience to encourage others. Years of living provide
opportunities to help others navigate difficulties. You have experienced
disappointments, answered prayers, unexpected changes, grief, and new
beginnings. God can use those experiences to encourage someone who is walking
through a difficult season. Scripture: 2 Corinthians 1:3–4
Find
new opportunities to serve. Serving God isn't limited to a job, a
title, or a formal ministry position.
Encourage
someone who is discouraged.
Visit
someone who is lonely.
Help a
neighbor.
Volunteer
at church.
Pray
faithfully for others.
Make
yourself available when someone needs help.
Scripture:
Galatians 6:9–10
Become
an example of faithfulness. Younger generations need to see that
following Jesus is not simply something we do when life is easy. They need to
see believers who remain faithful through illness, disappointment, loss,
uncertainty, and change. Scripture: Titus 2:2–3 Our lives can become living
testimonies of God's faithfulness.
Let go
of what is behind and embrace what God has ahead.
Sometimes older adults become so focused on what they can no longer do that
they overlook what they can still do. Our circumstances may change, but God's
purposes don't disappear. Perhaps we cannot serve in the same ways we once did,
but there are always opportunities to love, encourage, pray, teach, and serve.
Scripture: Philippians 3:13–14
Live
with eternity in view. John reminds us in 1 John 2:17 that the world
and its desires are passing away, but the person who does God's will lives
forever. This season of life gives us an opportunity to evaluate our
priorities.
Are we
investing in things that have eternal significance?
Are
our relationships characterized by love and forgiveness?
Are we
using our remaining days to glorify God?
Are we
preparing the next generation to carry the faith forward?
Scripture:
Colossians 3:1–2
As
Christians, we have received a faith that others before us faithfully carried.
Now we have the privilege and responsibility of passing it along.
We
aren't simply finishing our race; we're helping prepare the next generation to
run theirs.