Class Lesson for May 24, 2020

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Sunday @ 6:00 PM

DEALING WITH MESSY RELATIONSHIPS

In this series, we are looking at six traits God calls us to exhibit, traits that can clean up and restore a messy relationship. Living a life infused with these traits can even prevent a relationship from getting messy in the first place.

Love / Encourage / Forgive / Serve / Yield / Accept

Let's continue with the fifth trait to YIELD.

THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

I get amused when I see a news story about people who camp out overnight to be one of the first to purchase the latest phone, tablet, or gadget. On the other hand, I am saddened when I see reports of people pushing, shoving, and even punching to be the first in the store for the black Friday sales during Thanksgiving weekend.

We don’t always want to be first though.

• The four-year-old will gladly let his sister go first when lining up for shots.
• The adventurer will step back and let someone else volunteer for the boring assignment.

These examples share one thing, whether it’s to be the first in line or the last: selfishness. It’s about what I want . . . or what I want to avoid. A desire for something is not necessarily wrong, but when I push to get it at the expense of others, I have placed myself first and damaged my relationships.

In this session, we learn of a better way. Paul contended that we are called to be first in line for one thing: looking out for others. And when we do that, we get the benefit of strong relationships.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?

Philippians 2:1-4

1 If then there is any encouragement in Christ, if any consolation of love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any affection and mercy, 2 make my joy complete by thinking the same way, having the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. 4 Everyone should look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.

Paul challenged the church at Philippi to strive for a new level of maturity in relationships. He encouraged believers to “make my joy complete by thinking the same way, having the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose” (v. 2). Live in harmony! Unity among His people pleases God (Ps. 133:1), just as a well-rehearsed song becomes “music to our ears.” If your church is like most, the members will not agree on every single line item in the annual budget, but you can agree to stay together, work together, pray together, and serve together. You can choose to push your differences aside and interact with each other with “affection and mercy.”

Paul’s emphasis on unity and oneness with Christ feels warm and inviting, and in verses 3-4 he spelled out the challenging realities of how believers are to maintain that love and unity. He stated this truth in both negative and positive terms. Negatively, he instructed, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit” (v. 3) and don’t look out only for our own interests. On the positive side, Paul counseled believers to practice humility, “consider others as more important than yourselves,” and “look out . . . for the interests of others.”

Question 2:

What circumstances in life tempt you to ignore the instructions in these verses?

Humbly place the needs of others before your own. This is not an invitation to be a doormat and let others walk all over you! Paul was not suggesting that you ignore your own needs or stifle your own interests. It’s good to tend to whatever you’re responsible for in your life, but don’t do it at the expense of others. Work to help and meet the needs of others just as you work to meet your own needs. Jesus said the second greatest commandment was to “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:39)—not instead of yourself. Still, we shouldn’t consider our interests as more important than those of others.

Do you “look out” for others . . . or do you mainly “look out” for yourself? If you are like me, you probably have no trouble at all thinking about your own desires—what you want. Most of us don’t need alarms on our phones to remind us to eat, sleep, or play. We serve ourselves without thinking. However, we do need frequent promptings to keep our minds focused on others. Paul offered that prompt here, urging his Philippian friends—and us—to make the needs of other people a major focus of our lives.

Philippians 2:5

5 Adopt the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus.

Watching someone else perform a task may be the best way to learn. It’s not surprising that demonstration videos on YouTube® have multiplied exponentially. Wouldn’t you rather learn by observation rather than reading an instruction manual?

Paul challenged believers to observe Jesus to learn what humility looks like. We are to follow His example. Christ provided a perfect sacrifice for our sins, and He offers a perfect model for navigating our way through personal relationships. It all comes down to attitude: “Adopt the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus.”

Jesus is the quintessential example for us. Verses 6-11 show us how Jesus perfectly demonstrated humility and provided us the ultimate service: He died for us to bring us to God. “He emptied himself.” Jesus is completely God, but He humbly emptied Himself of the glory and privileges that are rightfully His.

We’ve all met someone who was “full of himself.” You may have fit that description a time or two yourself. When a person is full of himself, he leaves no room for others. His opinions are the cleverest and his experiences are the richest. He tries to fill the room with his own self-importance. Jesus’ attitude calls us to empty our egos and put others first. This is the essence of submission.

Jesus taught humility in His parables as well. In Luke 14:7-14, Jesus used a parable of a wedding banquet to challenge His followers to humbly select the worst seat in the house. Leave the coveted seat for someone else and consider yourself unworthy of such honor. “For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted” (Luke 14:11).

Don’t buy into the lie that greatness comes only when an ever-growing number of people know your name, follow you on Twitter®, or place you at the head of their table. Kill this attitude before it kills your connection with others.

Question 3:

How do we balance our responsibility to ourselves and to others?

Philippians 2:13-15

13 For it is God who is working in you both to will and to work according to his good purpose. 14 Do everything without grumbling and arguing, 15 so that you may be blameless and pure, children of God who are faultless in a crooked and perverted generation, among whom you shine like stars in the world.

“Do everything without grumbling and arguing” (v. 14).

C’mon, Paul. You surely don’t expect me to stand in line for over an hour without griping! We can’t truly accept our circumstances without raging against those responsible—can we? Yes, we can. Jesus did it . . . and He expects us to follow His example. By the power of His Spirit, we can live without grumbling and arguing—or griping and raging. It means you must make the choice to remove all whining from your world.

Jonathan Edwards was a pastor who had a prolific writing career. He became world famous for his role in the First Great Awakening in the 1730s-40s. His life was busy and full, yet like nearly all of us, he experienced great heartache along the way. After twenty-three years of serving his church, his flock fired him, sending him and his family out on the streets. While he was in the midst of being fired, badgered, and backstabbed, the people of the town paid close attention to his demeanor. As they observed his behavior, one man said:

“I never saw the least symptoms of displeasure in his countenance the whole week, but he appeared like a man of God, whose happiness was out of the reach of his enemies . . .”1

Edwards had found what Paul had found: a joy that soars above the ups-and-downs of life. Like an airplane that flies above the turbulence, we can fly above our stormy circumstances. Our joy can be placed beyond the reach of our enemies.

Paul was showing us how to “shine like stars in the world” (v. 15). The world is brimming over with whiners, haters, critics, and cynics.

Be the breath of fresh air our culture is so desperately longing for. How? By being convinced that God is up to something great in your life! I’m not talking about having a blind optimism, but rather living in the reality of what God is doing. “For it is God who is working in you both to will and to work according to his good purpose” (v. 13).

When you start taking Paul’s words seriously, your relationships will be affected.

• When you take the focus off yourself and your circumstances . . .
• When you look for ways to humbly serve others . . .
• When you stop complaining and start loving others through service . . .
• When you take on the same attitude as Christ . . .

. . . all your relationships will be affected. And those same people will discover you have stumbled upon a treasure they desperately long to find: inner peace and fixed joy.

Question 4:

How have you seen relationships strengthened through acts of humility?

Question 5:

How can our group serve as a safe place for honest conversation?

LEARNING TO YIELD

In the following arenas of your life, how can you act without grumbling or arguing? (choose 3) Jot down some ways of responding that would be so counter cultural that you would certainly shine like a star.

while driving    
hanging at a sports event  
functioning in your home

choosing what you wear  
choosing entertainment options
speaking to others 

spending money    
working at the office

“Humility is nothing but the disappearance

of self in the vision that God is all.”

LIVE IT OUT

What steps will you take to practice humility and place the needs of others before your own? Choose one of the following applications:

• Small steps. Park in the worst space in the church parking lot next Sunday. Extra credit if it’s raining. Come early and set up the room for your next small group meeting. Tell someone how much you appreciate his or her gifts or skills in a particular area.
• Medium steps. Share a story of a major failure from your past. Confess your need for the gospel. Volunteer in a homeless ministry and treat those people as you would treat governors and kings.
• Large steps. Offer a sincere apology to someone you’ve hurt. Share your desire to be forgiven. Meet someone’s need with a large sum of money . . . and do it anonymously.

When’s the last time you fought hard to be first in line for something you wanted? When’s the last time you fought hard not to be first in line for something you dreaded? There’s a better way; by faith, let’s practice it! 

Hope to see everyone this evening on zoom!

In His Love,

David & Susan

Teacher Notes:

And if you're wondering why the above quote about humility and underwear includes an image of two dogs, that's a pair of Boxers. 

Humility is a character trait some people equate with weakness; they wrongly associate humility with being a doormat, being passive, so pliable as to be unable or unwilling to take a stand for something. They are convinced to be humble only allows a strong dictatorial or domineering person to take advantage of them and treat them as objects. The Epistle to the Philippians paints a far different—and better—picture of humility. Paul pointed to Jesus as the model of what it means to live with a submissive attitude. Hence, we may learn from Him how to yield our personal desires to address the needs of others.

Lynn Pryor writes, I’ve thought for years I should write a book titled: The Ten Most Humble People and How I Mentored the Other Nine.

Yeah, right.

Humility is a virtue we know we need, but if we know we have it … well, maybe we don’t have it after all. An acknowledgment of our own humility may just go against what it means to be humble!

So, who is the most humble person? Three names come to mind.

1. Moses. The Bible describes him as humble. “Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth” (Num. 12:3).
2. Jesus. The Son of God is our perfect example of how we are to live with humility (Phil. 2:5-11).
3. _______________________. Actually, I don’t know the third person’s name. Maybe it’s you. But it is someone who loves Jesus wholeheartedly and serves so humbly and quietly that no one even notices.

I find such humility admirable in today’s world. We live in a world that encourages you to wave your own flag. Market who you are. Toot your own horn, because if you don’t, who will?

Churches are beginning to emerge from the COVID-19 quarantine and many are starting to meet again. The church where I am serving as the interim pastor will resume meeting on May 31. Like many churches, we will be doing so with self-imposed restrictions: facemasks, physical distancing, and 55-gallon drums of hand sanitizer … well, lots of hand sanitizer.

Unfortunately, COVID-19 with its wide range of opinions and theories (including conspiracy theories) is dividing people—even believers in Christ’s body.

• We’re going overboard with all this “protection.”
• No one is going to make me wear a mask!
• We’re the church. We should be trusting God, not unsure doctors or the government.

What does humility look like as we come back together? Humility is willing to restrict my freedoms for the sake of others.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. Everyone should look not to his own interests, but rather to the interests of others” (Phil. 2:3-4).

I don’t want to wear a face mask, but I will. I’m happy to shake someone’s hand (or fist bump or whatever the cool kids are doing this week), but I won’t. I choose to restrict myself for the sake of others. We can debate until the cows come home about the legitimacy and value of the guidelines and restrictions, but for the moment, I choose to err on the side of discretion.

It’s not about me. I choose to restrict myself for the sake of others. To do otherwise is to be centered on what I want.  That is being self-centered—and that’s pride.

Love and value those around you. Place their interests before your own. That’s what Jesus did for us—and we are called to be like Jesus. In the very next verse after Paul wrote on living in humility, he said:

“Adopt the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, did not consider equality with God as something to be exploited. Instead he emptied himself by assuming the form of a servant, taking on the likeness of humanity. And when he had come as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death—even to death on a cross” (vv. 5-8).

Let’s humble ourselves before God, setting aside ourselves, and living for the sake of others. God honors our humility. Let’s honor Him by living humbly before others.

What does it mean to consider someone more important than yourself?

Philippians 2:5

5 Adopt the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus.

How would you describe “the same attitude as that of Christ Jesus” (v. 5)?

Jesus is the quintessential example for us. Verses 6-11 show us how Jesus perfectly demonstrated humility and provided us the ultimate service: He died for us to bring us to God. “He emptied himself.” Jesus is completely God, but He humbly emptied Himself of the glory and privileges that are rightfully His.

We’ve all met someone who was “full of himself.” You may have fit that description a time or two yourself. When a person is full of himself, he leaves no room for others. His opinions are the cleverest and his experiences are the richest. He tries to fill the room with his own self-importance. Jesus’ attitude calls us to empty our egos and put others first. This is the essence of submission.

Philippians 2:13-15

For it is God who is working in you both to will and to work according to his good purpose. Do everything without grumbling and arguing, so that you may be blameless and pure, children of God who are faultless in a crooked and perverted generation, among whom you shine like stars in the world.

What does it look like to practice these verses on a daily basis?

What are some lasting truths from Philippians 2:13-15?

• God is at work within us and gives us spiritual energy to do His good will.
• Our attitudes give definition to the depth of our spiritual character.
• The world in which we live needs to see the difference Christ can make in people’s lives.

LIVE IT OUT

We live in a power-grabbing world where the person with great honors, the highest attainments, and the most prestige have the most influence and tend to be valued above others.

Jesus long ago turned that worldview upside down. He called for humility of spirit; think of others first and foremost.

Paul had many things he could boast about but in the end, he knew those things were not that important. In fact, they could be regarded as rubbish (Phil 4:4-8). Such is the attitude Paul aspired for the Philippians. And it is an attitude, disposition, and approach to life still needed among believers in our churches and in our communities.

Class Lesson for May 17, 2020

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Sunday @ 6:00 PM

DEALING WITH MESSY RELATIONSHIPS

In this series, we are looking at six traits God calls us to exhibit, traits that can clean up and restore a messy relationship. Living a life infused with these traits can even prevent a relationship from getting messy in the first place.

Love / Encourage / Forgive / Serve / Yield / Accept

Let's continue with the fourth trait to SERVE.

THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

We’ve all had experiences with customer service we’d like to forget. But I tend to remember the ones that make me smile rather than frown.

For example, a man booked a last-minute trip on a well-known airline to see his dying grandson one last time. Traffic and long lines at the airport caused him to arrive at the gate twelve minutes after the plane’s scheduled departure, but the airline had been informed of this man’s tragic situation. Imagine the man’s surprise when the pilot himself was standing there waiting for him. The pilot said, “They can’t go anywhere without me, and I wasn’t going anywhere without you. Now relax. We’ll get you there. And again, I’m so sorry.”

Good customer service is not about making a sale or even keeping a customer. It’s about doing what’s right and helping the other person.

But we’re not talking about customers and business; we’re talking about relationships. The principle still applies though: we strengthen our relationships when we help and serve the other person. Serving is a tangible way to love others.

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?

Galatians 5:13-15

13 For you were called to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. 14 For the whole law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself. 15 But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another.

Freedom is a natural human hunger. We all want to feel free, but sin so easily entangles us and holds our feet to the ground. In Galatians 5, however, Paul reminded us that a revolution has come through Jesus. Because of His perfect sacrifice, the power of sin has been broken, and we can be free from the downward spiral of sin.

Let’s look first at what this freedom is not. Our freedom in Christ is not a license to go back to our old lifestyles—to live like we did before we were saved. Notice the word flesh in verse 13. This refers to our sinful nature, the “old person” that continues to live inside us, even after the moment of salvation. “The flesh” is the self-absorbed side of us that can grow like a cancer when let off its leash. It no longer owns us, but it likes to think it does. Paul knew firsthand about the continual pull of the old sin nature (Rom. 7:14-24).

The inward focus of the sin nature not only harms us; it affects our relationships. If I am focused on myself, and you are focused on yourself, how can we ever have a strong relationship? When we focus inwardly, on ourselves, sins like selfishness, greed, and uncaring attitudes quickly follow and will sour our relationship. As Paul warned: “But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another” (v. 15).

Paul also knew that we would find the only remedy for the flesh in an ongoing relationship with Christ (v. 25). So, as we focus on Christ, we also are to focus on those He has brought into our lives. We should maximize our liberty in Christ by loving people through service.

Question 2:

What’s the connection between freedom in Christ and the command to serve?

Jesus blazed a trail back to the beauty of community. While the ultimate result of Christ’s death and resurrection is the forgiveness of sin and a relationship with God, it also alters the way we feel about ourselves (no more guilt!) . . . and revolutionizes the way we feel about others. We can now love people, and we express that love through serving them.

Think of the ways you naturally serve yourself.

• When your body needs food, you make haste to the fridge.
• When your body calls out for sleep, you go in search of a pillow and blanket.
• When your body feels the need for exercise, you take the dog for a walk.

This type of “self-service” is not necessarily bad, but Paul challenged us to serve others just as faithfully as we serve ourselves. We “serve” our needs. Likewise, we can serve others when they have needs. Make everyday investments in others until it becomes a habit, the natural way of doing your life.

Galatians 6:1-5

1 Brothers and sisters, if someone is overtaken in any wrongdoing, you who are spiritual, restore such a person with a gentle spirit, watching out for yourselves so that you also won’t be tempted. 2 Carry one another’s burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone considers himself to be something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 Let each person examine his own work, and then he can take pride in himself alone, and not compare himself with someone else. 5 For each person will have to carry his own load.

In Galatians 6 Paul gave us a more effective way for using our energy and time: helping others. Paul began by describing a way of helping others that may surprise you: serve others by confronting them in love. “Brothers and sisters, if someone is overtaken in any wrongdoing, you who are spiritual, restore such a person with a gentle spirit” (v. 1).

One of the most important roles you play in others’ lives is to help them see their blind spots. Anyone who drives a car can grasp this idea. I have been saved at the last second by my loving wife shouting: “HONEY, THERE’S A CAR BESIDE YOU!” In a panic, I yanked the wheel and returned to my lane unscathed.

As my heart rate slowly returned to normal, I offered thanks to my wife because her intent really had been to help me and not to throw me into cardiac arrest! Thanks to her, I had dodged a proverbial bullet.

Question 3:

How can we help others see blind spots in a way that strengthens relationships?

Paul challenged the church to gently, lovingly, and sensitively serve others by helping them see the way they wound themselves or others. This process requires much prayer, but it must be a part of healthy relationships.

Paul drove home the need for tangible forms of service:

“Carry one another’s burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (v. 2). Strong relationships call for us to help carry loads. It’s a lot easier to move a heavy piece of furniture when someone is there to help you carry it. It’s still my load to carry, but by coming alongside and helping me carry it, you ease my strain. In a sense, my burden becomes your burden as we carry it together.

Notice it goes both ways. You help carry my burdens, and I help carry yours. This, of course, requires appropriate self-disclosure and soul-bearing. After all, people cannot help you lift something they don’t know about.

In verses 3-5, Paul called me to take a long, hard look in the mirror. Do I have a healthy view of myself, demonstrated through humble confession and openness to correction? Do I realize that one day I will stand before Jesus and answer for the amount of heavy lifting I performed — or didn’t perform — in the lives of others? I must carry my load of service.

Question 4:

What does carrying one another’s burdens look like?

Galatians 6:10

10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us work for the good of all, especially for those who belong to the household of faith. 

Paul declared in verse 7: “For whatever a person sows he will also reap.” For this reason, Christians are challenged to sow seeds in the forever field of Christian community. In verse 10, Paul mentioned the need to demonstrate love to all, but he stressed the importance of Christians investing in other Christians. Relationships inside the church are held at the highest level.

This certainly doesn’t mean we ignore the needs of those outside the body of Christ.

Sowing good seed in the lives of lost people is important as well. But just as a person cares for his immediate family before he takes care of the neighbors (1 Tim. 5:8), believers must be sure to take care of their brothers and sisters in Christ. This serves as a great witness to those outside the church.

Paul took it for granted that the Galatian Christians were interacting regularly with one another. Being with the body of believers is critical to spiritual growth. It should go without saying: one of the prerequisites for healthy relationships is your consistent presence in others’ lives. What a challenge it is to serve people with whom you rarely sit and talk, those with whom you hardly ever engage in robust conversation. Indeed, for some, the first step of obedience to Galatians 6:10 is to simply to show up more frequently!

Once you insert yourself regularly into a small group environment, Paul would then challenge you to resist the urge to merely sit back and soak it up! Do not wait for the invitation to serve, but search for opportunities to work for the good in others’ lives. The opportunities to serve are endless.

While Christians should stand ready to serve in any way they are needed, the wisest way to serve others is by opening up your unique package of spiritual gifts. Consider how the Holy Spirit has hardwired you for ministry and use those gifts and abilities to serve and meet the needs that lie before you. All that remains for us to do is to open our hearts and eyes to see the needs and opportunities, and go for it!

Question 5:

What opportunities does our group have to serve others in our church and community?

SERVING OTHERS

On the left side, list ways you’ve appreciated others serving you. On the right side, list ways you have served or can serve others. Place the name of someone you can serve this week next to one of the items listed.

How Others Have Served You     How You Have Served or Can Serve Others

LIVE IT OUT

Where is God leading you to serve? 

Choose one of the following applications:

• Thank someone. Consider the person who served you, confronted you in love, or helped you carry a burden. Contact him or her and express your appreciation.
• Restore someone. If a friend or family member is in the midst of sinful behavior or has made a bad decision, ask God for wisdom and direction on the best way to lovingly talk with the person. Act on your prayer.
• Serve someone. As a group, identify individuals whom you could walk alongside and help ease their burden. Use this as an opportunity to love and bring them into your group.

Let’s so live that, when people think of great experiences with service, they don’t think of customer service; they think of Christian service!

Can't wait to see everyone this Sunday!

In His Love,

David & Susan

Teacher Notes:

Our Lesson gave us a great story: A man booked a last-minute trip on a well-known airline to see his dying grandson one last time. Traffic and long lines at the airport caused him to arrive at the gate twelve minutes after the plane’s scheduled departure, but the airline had been informed of this man’s tragic situation. Imagine the man’s surprise when the pilot himself was standing there waiting for him. The pilot said, “They can’t go anywhere without me, and I wasn’t going anywhere without you. Now relax. We’ll get you there. And again, I’m so sorry.”

Wow is that not about doing what’s right and helping the other person.

This is what our lesson is about this week – loving others by SERVING.

The central theme of Galatians is “How is a person saved and justified? By works of the law, or by faith?”

Almost everything Paul writes in this book will be to answer those questions.

The glory of God as the purpose of Salvation. The central theme of Galatians is 'Freedom in Christ' which is understood as the birthright of every believer. Through faith in Christ, he has been delivered from the bondage and condemnation of the law and from the power of sin.

Paul's letter to the Galatians can be divided into three parts. Chapters 1—2 focus on Paul's biography, including his qualifications to represent Christ as an apostle. The end of chapter 2, through chapter 4, deals mainly with theology, explaining that justification comes by faith in Christ and not by following the works of the law. Chapters 5—6 focus on application of these truths. Knowing all that's been presented in chapters 1—4, how should those who are free in Christ live?

Paul then turns his focus to another way Christians might waste the freedom Christ has won for us. Some might think that since they have already been forgiven for their sin and justified by faith in Christ, what would keep them from indulging in all their sinful desires? That's not what our freedom in Christ is for. Instead, we should use our freedom to serve each other in love (Galatians 5:13–15).

But how can we overcome our sinful desires and focus on serving others? We can only do so by the power of God's Spirit, given to us when we trusted in Christ for our salvation. The Spirit of God is powerful and gives believers the supernatural ability to love as Christ does instead of serving self. The battle for Christians is to allow the Spirit to lead instead of shutting Him down to go our own way. Our own way always leads to sin and then to destruction. Paul provides a list of sinful lifestyles. Those who live in that way without ever turning back should not think that they are in Christ. They will not inherit God's kingdom along with those who have God's Spirit (Galatians 5:16–21).

Then Paul offers a second list. This one reveals what comes out of those who allow God's Spirit to lead the way. It is one "fruit" with nine characteristics: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

Galatians 3—4 focused on theology. Galatians 5—6 focus on how Christians should live in response to those truths. In short, we must resist being dragged away from the freedom we have in Christ to follow the law. We must also resist wasting our freedom on serving our sinful desires instead of serving others in love. We can do this by the power of God's Spirit with us. When we give Him the lead, powerful, positive characteristics show up in us. Galatians 6 will show how to use those characteristics to serve each other.

Galatians 5:13-15

For you were called to be free, brothers and sisters; only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. For the whole law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself. But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another.

How would you describe to someone the freedom we’re given in Christ?

What were we freed from?

• Christ died to set us free from sin, the law, and our own selfish desires. We are not free to do whatever we want because that would lead us back into slavery to our selfish desires.
• Thanks to Christ – we are now able to do what was impossible before – to live unselfishly. When we use our freedom to live our own way or indulge in our own desires we are falling back into sin. It’s Paul’s whole message of dying  

How does Paul say the whole law is fulfilled?

• If we love our neighbor as our self. Love for others and for God is the response of those whom God has forgiven. In Luke 7:47 – Jesus said that those who are forgiven much, love much.
• Paul distinguishes here between the freedom to sin and the freedom to serve. It is an ongoing battle – to serve self or others. Freedom to sin is no freedom at all because it enslaves you to Satan, others, or your own sinful nature. As Christians we are free to do right and to glorify God through loving service to others.
• When we are not motivated by love, we become critical of others. We stop looking for good in them and see only their faults. Have you talked behind someone’s back? Have you focused on other’s shortcomings instead of their strengths? Jesus commanded you to love others as you love yourself (Matthew 22:39). When you begin to feel critical of someone, make a list of their positive qualities. It’s better to confront them in love than to gossip.

How Serving in the Church Changed My Life

After several years of neglecting my relationship with Jesus, I knew it was time to go back to church. I searched online for a church nearby and found NewSpring. I started listening to services online and eventually attended in person.

Week in and week out, my family and I had an incredible experience. Parking attendants directed me to a spot, and warm, smiling faces greeted us as we approached the building. Volunteers helped check in the kids and guided us in the right direction. We grabbed free coffee then went into the auditorium where creative videos, and practical teaching kept us engaged and informed.

A talented team of musicians led us in worship. One of the teaching pastors then took the stage and delivered an inspiring message. After service, we were always invited to connect with volunteers in the VIP Room or pray with someone in the Care Room.

At first glance, it’s easy to believe you are not needed in a church like this. When every environment is welcoming and every volunteer seems eager to serve, it’s easy to think, they’ve got it covered without my help.

A year later, my family relocated, and it was no coincidence, NewSpring had a growing portable campus about 12 miles from our house. My initial experience was the same. But this time, I felt God leading me to start serving.

It took a few months to find the right spot, but God was faithful to lead me where I needed to be. Through serving on the Care Team, I discovered that serving was about so much more than filling a need. God uses our serving to change us.

Four Ways Serving in the Church Changed Me and Can Change You

1. Serving directly increases our faith.

Through serving, God gave me a front row seat to seeing Him change people’s lives.

Serving allows us to experience His power firsthand ...

Watching God work in someone else’s life increases our faith. In John 2:1-11, Jesus performs His first miracle at a wedding in Cana by turning the water into wine. Other than Mary, Jesus’ mother, only the servers at the wedding witnessed this miracle. The wedding attendees received the benefit of the new wine, and the wedding party saved face because of the miracle, but it was the servers who had the first opportunity to witness Jesus’ power. Serving allows us to experience His power firsthand and that naturally produces faith in us.

2. Serving helps us see and experience what we’re made for.

Through serving, I have learned that my fullest joy comes from serving others. Ephesians 2:10 tells us why: “... we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God has prepared in advance for us to do.”

You have been gifted by God, and you are incredibly valuable to Him and the church. Ephesians 4 goes on to explain how important each individual is to the church. Instead of trying to look, speak, and act the same, we are called to train each other up using the gifts, skills, and abilities God has given us. When we do, we’ll find “we’re all moving rhythmically and easily with each other, efficient and graceful in response to God’s Son, fully mature adults, fully developed within and without, fully alive like Christ” (Ephesians 4:7-13, MSG).

You have been gifted by God, and you are incredibly valuable to Him and the church.

God also uses our serving, and those we serve with, to reveal our gifts to us. 1 Peter 4:10 says, “Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.” When we are operating in our gifting to serve God and others, we experience the kind of joy we were made for!

3. Serving draws us into authentic community.

If I had to choose one word to describe how serving has affected my life, it would be “community.” Not long after volunteering, I was invited to a group with a couple on my serving team. Four years later, I consider them family. God has used the people I serve with to encourage me, pray for me, and teach me. My relationship with Jesus and others has flourished as a result.

In John 17, Jesus prayed for God to protect us so we would be one as He and the Father are one. This oneness is best experienced in and through participation in the church — by serving and loving one another well.

4. Serving requires obedience and redirects our focus to Jesus.

The simplest way to follow Jesus is by doing what He did. In Matthew 20:28, Jesus tells us He came to serve, not be served. By being obedient to follow Jesus in this way, we get to know Him on a new level because we experience firsthand His love for others.

When we begin to care for and serve others, God redirects our focus.

When we begin to care for and serve others, God redirects our focus. As my friend, Chip, says “I can’t think of a better way to diminish the significance of my problems than to get the focus off of myself and to place it on others.”

Believing the lie that the church doesn’t need you will rob you of the joys God designed for you to experience through serving. Take a risk and get involved. God will honor that step of faith and grow it into so much more!

According to these verses, what impact should our freedom in Christ have on our relationships?

A call to love.

• He urged them to serve one another in love. He reminded them that the whole law can be summed up in a single command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Love is shown in actions, not just words. It requires us to focus on others rather than ourselves.
• Church members often complain that their needs aren’t being met. I must say that, as a pastor, such talk rubs me the wrong way. Did not our Lord call us to serve one another? Didn’t He command us to deny ourselves? Unfortunately, these seem to be foreign concepts in the modern American church.
• He warned them against “biting and devouring” each other. Conflict can literally destroy a church, hence Paul’s warning that they not “consume” one another. Church conflict dishonors God, and it is a poor witness to others.

Galatians 6:1-5

Brothers and sisters, if someone is overtaken in any wrongdoing, you who are spiritual, restore such a person with a gentle spirit, watching out for yourselves so that you also won’t be tempted. Carry one another’s burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. For if anyone considers himself to be something when he is nothing, he deceives himself. Let each person examine his own work, and then he can take pride in himself alone, and not compare himself with someone else. For each person will have to carry his own load.

Galatians 6 starts with describing how Spirit-led Christians serve each other by restoring those caught be sin and bearing each other's burdens.

First Paul called us to love and to show that love by serving others and not ourselves. Then here he calls us to compassion – compassion for who?

Galatians 6 expands on Paul's teaching about living in God's Spirit, which he gave at the end of Galatians chapter 5. It describes how Christians who live in God's Spirit should use His power to treat each other.

To begin with, Paul shows that when a brother or sister in Christ gets caught by sin, other Christians should step in instead of looking away. Spiritually mature Christians should help to restore the one caught by sin with gentleness and humility. This is one of the ways those in Christ can help to carry each other's burdens. When the load one of us is hauling around becomes too heavy, others should step in to help that person get through that season. In other words, life in Christ by the power of God's Spirit is not meant to be lived alone (Galatians 6:1–2).

Having said that, Paul encourages Christians to take careful stock of the work they do in the Spirit without comparing themselves to each other. We should be honest with ourselves and take full responsibility to do what is ours to do in following Christ. One of those responsibilities is to share the good things God gives to us with those who teach us the Word (Galatians 6:3–5).

A call to compassion.

• We must show compassion to people who fall into sin.
• They were to do so in a spirit of “meekness” (gentleness). But for the grace of God, the offender could be you. Spiritual pride is the worst kind of pride. One of the worst things a Christian can say is, “That’ll never happen to me.” When you start thinking that way, chances are the devil has you right where he wants you.

Serving others means helping to carry their burdens.

• As believers, we are to make every effort to restore a brother or sister who is guilty of a wrongdoing.
• Believers show the love of Christ by helping another person to bear life’s burdens that are too heavy to endure alone.

Galatians 6:10

Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us work for the good of all, especially for those who belong to the household of faith.

A call to serve.

We are to show kindness to all people. Kindness is a powerful witness. It demonstrates the love of Christ. It’s a powerful weapon (Romans 12:20). It transcends all racial, cultural, and social barriers.

We should especially show kindness to our brothers and sisters in Christ. We should be kind even to those who do not deserve it. Even unbelievers love those who love them (Matt. 5:46). This does not mean we should let people abuse our generosity (2 Thessalonians 3:10-12). Such love demonstrates that we belong to Christ (John 13:35).

Seize every opportunity to serve.

• Believers are to search out and seize every opportunity to do good toward others.

  

What do you believe are the Benefits of Serving Others?

1.  Refocus Your Mind. Serving others forces you to take your focus off of yourself. At the end of the day, we’re all in the same boat, normally focused mostly on ourselves. That’s why this practice has such tremendous spiritual benefits. The more you take your eyes off of yourself, the more you’ll see others and the more you’ll see God all around you.

2.  Practice What You Read. The Bible is packed with spiritual insights, life principles, and wisdom of tremendous value. It’s powerful, unprecedented, and life-changing. You can read the same passage time after time over the course of a lifetime and still find valuable insights you’ve never understood before. There is a secret, however, that will unlock the deepest meaning of some of the hardest passages for you. It all boils down to three words: Just do it. Or as James reminds us, “Be doers of the Word, and not hearers only…” Studying the Bible is awesome. Doing what you read is better. It allows the Spirit to open your understanding like nothing else can.

3.    Join the Lord in His Work. When you serve others, you’re joining the Lord in the work He’s already doing. He’s always working all around you. When you ask God, “what can I do?”, He says, “Follow me. I’m already doing it.” Sometimes you just have to open your eyes, direct them away from your life and you’ll see countless opportunities to be a blessing to your neighbors. You don’t have to be a career pastor or minister. You can join the Lord in His work today!

4.    God Will Change Your Heart. There is no doubt about it. The moment you step out to serve and help others, God will change your heart. You may feel like you’re going to be a blessing to someone else, and you will be. But you’ll also often feel like you may be the one receiving the bigger blessing. God’s always working all around you, but He’s also keenly interested in what’s going on inside you.

5.    Have Eternal Significance. When you serve others from a heart that loves God and wants to follow Him, it reverberates in Eternity. That’s not hyperbole or exaggeration just to sound cool, either. It’s Scriptural. Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve.  Colossians 3:23-24 (See also Matthew 6:1-6)