Our Prayer

Our Prayer

Heavenly Father, I know that I have sinned against You and that my sins separate me from You. I am truly sorry. I now want to turn away from my sinful past and turn to You for forgiveness. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your Son, Jesus Christ, died for my sins, that He was raised from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become my Savior and the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You and to convict me when I sin. I pledge to grow in grace and knowledge of You. My greatest purpose in life is to follow Your example and do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

Thursday, February 10, 2022

Class Lesson February 13, 2022

3. The Pitfall of Injustice 




Question 1:

When have you seen someone simply refuse to quit?



THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE


In Rocky Balboa (2006), Rocky said, “It ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward.” While Joseph never had the chance to see a Rocky film, there’s a good chance he would have resonated with that line. In today’s session, we will see how Joseph chose to press on, even though the days of disappointment continued.


Have you walked through a season when you couldn’t seem to catch a break? Did you ever wonder if good days would ever return? Maybe you lost a job around the same time a loved one died. Or you were going through a painful divorce just as you also received troubling news from the doctor. Life can throw many hard things at us. We may even be tempted to let our hope in God fade.


As you read this part of Joseph’s story, be encouraged that the Lord will always see His children through. As Jesus said: “You will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).


THE POINT

Press forward in spite of injustice. 

 

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?


Genesis 39:21-23

21 The Lord was with him; he showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden. 22 So the warden put Joseph in charge of all those held in the prison, and he was made responsible for all that was done there. 23 The warden paid no attention to anything under Joseph’s care, because the Lord was with Joseph and gave him success in whatever he did.


Joseph didn’t deserve to be jailed; he was an innocent man now forced into confinement. He now had nothing but time on his hands. We wouldn’t be surprised if Joseph, in those circumstances, was constantly tempted to be bitter and angry toward God and others. Instead, however, Joseph appeared to be living by the principle that guided Paul: “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances” (Phil. 4:11).


It’s striking how similar verses 21-23 are to verses 3-6 earlier in the chapter, when Potiphar had promoted Joseph. The phrasing is almost identical in describing the meteoric rise of Joseph in a foreign place. The biblical writer wanted us to make a critical connection: the secret to Joseph’s success was the sovereign favor of God. The Lord chose to be with Joseph and to shower the faithful young man with kindness. It wasn’t Joseph’s good looks, strategic maneuvering, or top-shelf leadership skills that pushed him to the head of the pack. It was God going before him and opening up the doors.


We continue to see hints of Jesus’ own life as we follow the Joseph narrative. This passage is often connected to Isaiah’s prophecy that says the Messiah “was numbered with the transgressors” (Isa. 53:12). Just as Jesus was crucified along with prisoners, Joseph also suffered with the accused. In both Joseph’s and Jesus’ journeys, God would provide the strength to help them endure under severe circumstances. This is true of all God’s people who trust Him.


Question 2:

What can we learn from Joseph about doing good in the face of injustice?


Suffering is unwelcome in anyone’s life. No one looks forward to days of suffering, but Scripture is full of verses that challenge the children of God to remain true no matter what trials come their way. Though the Bible was written long after Joseph was buried, his life truly modeled biblical truth. Joseph was put in charge of the entire prison and he chose to “bloom where he was planted,” even if it wasn’t in the garden of his choosing.


It’s easy to let our circumstances get us down. We should be mindful that, just as the Lord was a warrior for Joseph, He fights for us as well. When we commit to trusting God through trials, our faith and character grow. It will all be worth it in the long run. When God brings disappointment, we must choose to trust Him and to keep moving forward. The way of faith is the only way.


Genesis 40:4-8

4 The captain of the guard assigned them to Joseph, and he attended them. After they had been in custody for some time, 5 each of the two men—the cupbearer and the baker of the king of Egypt, who were being held in prison—had a dream the same night, and each dream had a meaning of its own. 6 When Joseph came to them the next morning, he saw that they were dejected. 7 So he asked Pharaoh’s officials who were in custody with him in his master’s house, “Why do you look so sad today?” 8 “We both had dreams,” they answered, “but there is no one to interpret them.” Then Joseph said to them, “Do not interpretations belong to God? Tell me your dreams.”


Joseph may have been given a good position, but he was still in prison. He may have had some authority over the prisoners, but he worked in complete obscurity. Yet, as he continued to give his best in his menial work, the Lord was working behind the scenes in ways Joseph wouldn’t see for a few more years. The imprisonment of two figures would change the course of his life, though he had no idea at the time what the Lord is doing.


The two men were “the cupbearer and the baker of the king of Egypt.” While we might understand that these men cooked and served Pharaoh his wine, what may be foreign to us is the significance of both roles. Someone with access to a leader’s food and drink could easily poison Pharaoh; therefore, the cupbearer and baker were trusted men.


We don’t know exactly why these two men in Pharaoh’s inner circle were imprisoned. Perhaps Pharaoh had gotten ill after a meal, which would have made these two men the prime suspects. The men were locked up while the matter was investigated. For all they knew, their days of influence were over, and they might remain in the dungeon for good. 


PATIENCE AND PERSEVERANCE


Rate yourself on a scale of 1-10 in your ability to take setbacks in stride. 

Then offer a prayer to the Lord for His help.




1 = You rage and gnash your teeth when the pizza delivery is twenty minutes late.


10 = You have learned how to be content in all circumstances.


Are you a 3? 5? 7? Though it’s a difficult prayer to offer, the Lord desires to grow our patience and to train us to keep a cool head and kind demeanor even as hard times come. Meanwhile, we learn lessons that help us press ahead.


My Prayer:

_______________________________


“The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all.”

PSALM 34:19


But then they had dreams. Notice how dreams once again play an important role in Joseph’s life. The baker and cupbearer were distraught by their dreams, and Joseph inquired as to the nature of them. In ancient times, dreams were a vehicle of divine revelations, and the Egyptians believed that a special tribe of magicians could provide the key to unlock their mysteries.


Joseph stood against the culture when he suggested that “Do not interpretations belong to God?” He pointed these men to God, the only One who has the power to rightly explain a dream. Joseph requested to hear the dreams because he hadn’t lost faith in God; in fact, he believed the Lord would help him interpret them. Joseph’s walk with the Lord remained strong throughout his suffering.


As we walk through great trials in life, we must follow Joseph’s example and trust that God is still at work in us. One of the strongest temptations in suffering is to wallow in self-pity. We turn inward and lose sight of all those around us who are also suffering. In seasons of loss, we should take our cues from Joseph and continue to point others to the Lord.


Question 3:

What are some appropriate ways to respond when we’ve been treated unfairly?



Genesis 40:20-23

20 Now the third day was Pharaoh’s birthday, and he gave a feast for all his officials. He lifted up the heads of the chief cupbearer and the chief baker in the presence of his officials: 21 He restored the chief cupbearer to his position, so that he once again put the cup into Pharaoh’s hand— 22 but he impaled the chief baker, just as Joseph had said to them in his interpretation. 23 The chief cupbearer, however, did not remember Joseph; he forgot him.


In verses 9-19, Joseph heard the dreams of the chief cupbearer and the baker—and he precisely interpreted the dreams. Joseph surely expected that he would soon be vindicated, and his time in the dungeon was about to come to a close. Yet, this was not the case. Even though Joseph delivered on his promise to interpret the dreams, the chief cupbearer let him down. The baker was executed as Joseph predicted from the dream, but the cupbearer was restored to his role. The cupbearer worked in close proximity to Pharaoh and could have easily spoken up for Joseph, but he didn’t. He simply forgot.


People often disappoint us. It hurts to be overlooked or outright forgotten by others. Joseph may have been forgotten by people including the cupbearer, but God never forgot him. Yet, two more years would pass before his season of suffering ended.


Question 4:

What can help us wait upon the Lord during periods of injustice?



Delays like this could leave any of us understandably discouraged. Joseph’s extended stay in the lonely prison was a major setback in his life, but he patiently endured. We might think he didn’t have a choice, but patience has to do with attitude. All we know of Joseph points to a character of calmly enduring and waiting on God to act.


We would acknowledge patience as a virtue, even though we want what we want now. Praying for God to give us patience is a courageous prayer. For this to happen, the Lord would likely make us wait for something we want now. In the process, we learn to walk through seasons of difficulties with a sense of calm that God is in control and will deliver.


The Lord’s plans are always perfect and always on time. Joseph had to continue being patient and long-suffering and trust that God was with him. May we learn the same.


Question 5:

How can our group help others in the midst of injustice?



LIVE IT OUT

Press forward in spite of injustice. Choose one of the following applications:


  • Pray. Pray for patience. Patience is a fruit of the Holy Spirit at work in your life. Pay attention to situations this week where you tend to lose your patience. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you endure patiently in these moments.                                                                                                        
  • Write. Write an inspiring Bible verse on a sticky note and attach it to your computer. Every time you’re tempted to whine about your circumstances, pray that verse.                                                                                                                                                                
  • Read. Read through a great devotional book this month, like Experiencing God or The Pursuit of God. Draw from the well of others.


As a kid, my brothers and I enjoyed boxing those inflatable punching bags. We were no Rocky’s, but no matter how hard we hit that thing, the bag always returned to center. This is a visual picture of the life of Joseph. No matter how many times he was knocked over, he always came back to center and renewed his faith in God. Let’s be inspired to do the same! 


Teacher Notes:





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While Joseph never had the chance to see a Rocky film, there’s a good chance he would have resonated with that line.

 

In today’s session, we will see how Joseph chose to press on, even though the days of disappointment continued.

 

Genesis 39:21-23

21 The Lord was with him; He showed him kindness and granted him favor in the eyes of the prison warden. 22 So the warden put Joseph in charge of all those held in the prison, and he was made responsible for all that was done there. 23 The warden paid no attention to anything under Joseph’s care, because the Lord was with Joseph and gave him success in whatever he did.

 

The Lord’s presence in Joseph’s life did not guarantee escape from distress, but it did provide protection through it.

 

When have you felt God’s presence in a challenging season of life? How did that affect the way you dealt with that situation?

 

It’s striking how similar verses 21-23 are to verses 3-6 earlier in the chapter, when Potiphar had promoted Joseph. The phrasing is almost identical in describing the meteoric rise of Joseph in a foreign place. The biblical writer wanted us to make a critical connection: the secret to Joseph’s success was the sovereign favor of God. The Lord chose to be with Joseph and to shower the faithful young man with kindness. It wasn’t Joseph’s good looks, strategic maneuvering, or top-shelf leadership skills that pushed him to the head of the pack. It was God going before him and opening up the doors.

 

 

1. Stay the course.

Joseph did not miss the opportunity to make the best of less than-ideal circumstances.

Many people allow the unfairness of life to blind them to God’s favor. Instead of focusing on your misfortune, focus on God. Despite your situation, God is still sovereign, and He can still make you successful. You may no longer be on the level you desire to be on. But whatever the level, God can make you successful, if you look to Him.

 

Suffering is unwelcomed in anyone’s life. No one looks forward to days of suffering, but Scripture is full of verses that challenge the children of God to remain true no matter what trials come their way. Though the Bible was written long after Joseph was buried, his life truly modeled biblical truth. Joseph was put in charge of the entire prison and he chose to “bloom where he was planted,” even if it wasn’t in the garden of his choosing.

 

The Point: Press forward in spite of injustice.

 

 

Genesis 40:4-8

4 The captain of the guard assigned them to Joseph, and he attended them. After they had been in custody for some time, 5 each of the two men — the cupbearer and the baker of the king of Egypt, who were being held in prison — had a dream the same night, and each dream had a meaning of its own. 6 When Joseph came to them the next morning, he saw that they were dejected. 7 So he asked Pharaoh’s officials who were in custody with him in his master’s house, “Why do you look so sad today?” 8 “We both had dreams,” they answered, “but there is no one to interpret them.” Then Joseph said to them, “Do not interpretations belong to God? Tell me your dreams.”

 

How can times of injustice be an opportunity to point others to God?

How do you typically interact with others when you’ve been treated unfairly?

 

Joseph continues to give his best in his menial work, the Lord was working behind the scenes in ways Joseph wouldn’t see for a few more years. The imprisonment of two figures would change the course of his life, though he had no idea at the time what the Lord is doing.

 

Notice how dreams once again play an important role in Joseph’s life. The baker and cupbearer were distraught by their dreams, and Joseph inquired as to the nature of them. In ancient times, dreams were a vehicle of divine revelations, and the Egyptians believed that a special tribe of magicians could provide the key to unlock their mysteries.

 

As we walk through great trials in life, we must follow Joseph’s example and trust that God is still at work in us. One of the strongest temptations in suffering is to wallow in self-pity. We turn inward and lose sight of all those around us who are also suffering. In seasons of loss, we should take our cues from Joseph and continue to point others to the Lord.

 

 

2. Don’t take it out on others.

Joseph had the gift of interpreting dreams. First Peter 4:10 says, “Just as each one has received a gift, use it to serve others, as good stewards of the varied grace of God.” Joseph did not use “serving time” as an excuse for not serving others. Before interpreting both the cupbearer’s and the baker’s dreams, Joseph gave glory to God. The apostle Peter says when we exercise our gifts, it is “…so that God may be glorified through Jesus Christ in everything” (1 Peter 4:11).

There are no injustices that excuse us from using our gifts. Our gifts are not for us, they are given to serve others (even our enemies) and bring glory to God, regardless of our circumstances.

Proverbs 18:16 says, “A person’s gift opens doors for him and brings him before the great.” Be faithful to your gifting. You never know the door it may open. Joseph’s faithfulness eventually “opened prison doors” and brought him before Pharaoh.

 

The Point: Press forward in spite of injustice.

 

 

Genesis 40:20-23

20 Now the third day was Pharaoh’s birthday, and he gave a feast for all his officials. He lifted up the heads of the chief cupbearer and the chief baker in the presence of his officials: 21 He restored the chief cupbearer to his position, so that he once again put the cup into Pharaoh’s hand — 22 but he impaled the chief baker, just as Joseph had said to them in his interpretation. 23 The chief cupbearer, however, did not remember Joseph; he forgot him.

 

What repeated themes do you see as you study Joseph’s life?

What truths from God’s Word can help us when we feel like God or other people have forgotten all about us?

 

 

3. Don’t get discouraged. 

Delays like this could leave any of us understandably discouraged. Joseph’s extended stay in the lonely prison was a major setback in his life, but he patiently endured. We might think he didn’t have a choice, but patience has to do with attitude. All we know of Joseph points to a character of calmly enduring and waiting on God to act.

 

Our faithfulness to others is never based on their faithfulness to us. It is based on our faithfulness to God. Despite Joseph faithfully serving and interpreting the cupbearer’s dream, he forgot all about Joseph.

There will be people who will forget about your faithfulness to them. Nevertheless, do not let people who forget about you deter you from being faithful to them or faithful to others. It’s God who rewards our faithfulness. When we remain faithful even when others are unfaithful, we demonstrate God’s faithfulness toward us.

 

The Point: Press forward in spite of injustice.

 

 

Conclusion: The pitfall of injustice can cause us to throw a pity party. It’s your party and you can cry if you want to, or you can dry your tears and perhaps you’ll begin to see that even in unfavorable circumstances, God can move people to favor us and make us successful. Regardless of the situation, we are called to be faithful and leave the results to a “God who is good all the time!”

Despite his faithfulness, Joseph is falsely accused of attempted rape and thrown into prison. Faithfulness does not exempt us from false accusations nor life’s unfairness. Jesus told His disciples, “No servant is greater than his master (John 15:20).” If Jesus wasn’t exempt from false accusations and injustice, should we expect exemption?

The disciples rejoiced when they were treated shamefully for preaching about Jesus because they considered it an honor to suffer for His name. The apostle Paul declares, “The Spirit himself testifies together with our spirit that we are God’s children, and if children, also heirs — heirs of God and coheirs with Christ — if indeed we suffer with him so that we may also be glorified with him” (Rom. 8:16-17).

However, God is a God of justice. He justified Jesus’ faithfulness by raising him from the dead. He justified the disciples’ faithfulness by releasing them from prison. He justified Joseph’s faithfulness by making him successful in prison.

There’s an old song that says: “Do not be disheartened, I have news for you. It is no secret what God can do. What He's done for others He'll do for you.”

 

 

God will justify our faithfulness as well. Press forward in spite of injustice.

 

“The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all.”

PSALM 34:19



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Thursday, February 3, 2022

Class Lesson February 6, 2022

 2. The Pitfall of Temptation 



Question 1:

What food or treat 

do you have a hard time resisting? 


THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

“That’s really tempting.”

Enticing objects flash before our eyes and we feel the urge to respond. A second helping of chocolate cake. An ad for an item we don’t need and can’t afford. Temptation lies around every corner.

We often pull back from temptation when someone is looking over our shoulder and says, “Don’t eat that” or “You really don’t need that.” Someone is watching over our shoulder: God!


In today’s study, Joseph modeled what it means to live with that truth in mind: God is watching our every move. Joseph’s aim was to keep himself clean in the midst of a dirty culture.

You may not be tempted in the same way Joseph was, but you will face temptation. We all do. Many of us are tempted to …

… love money and try to find security in it.

… cultivate a relationship that could destroy a marriage.

… envy a colleague who is experiencing great success.

Joseph’s approach to temptation can help all of us. 



THE POINT

Remembering what is at stake 

helps us overcome temptation. 



WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?


Genesis 39:1-7

1 Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt. Potiphar, an Egyptian who was one of Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard, bought him from the Ishmaelites who had taken him there. 2 The Lord was with Joseph so that he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. 3 When his master saw that the Lord was with him and that the Lord gave him success in everything he did, 4 Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned. 5 From the time he put him in charge of his household and of all that he owned, the Lord blessed the household of the Egyptian because of Joseph. The blessing of the Lord was on everything Potiphar had, both in the house and in the field. 6 So Potiphar left everything he had in Joseph’s care; with Joseph in charge, he did not concern himself with anything except the food he ate. Now Joseph was well-built and handsome, 7 and after a while his master’s wife took notice of Joseph and said, “Come to bed with me!”


At the end of our last session, Joseph was being hauled off to Egypt with a broken heart. Disowned and sold into slavery by his own brothers, he had little hope that the dreams he once shared would ever come true. Rather than seethe with anger and seek revenge, however, he chose to bloom where he was planted and to trust God to see him through. As he experienced success, he also would face new temptations and new challenges. 


Question 2:

What are some dangers we face when things are going well for us?


In spite of Joseph’s circumstances, God was at work in his life. The Lord Himself was the warrior fighting Joseph’s battles. The young man could not take credit for the continual success he experienced. In addition to Joseph’s good works, he was also blessed with good looks. “Joseph was well-built and handsome.” He may have favored his mother because a similar description was used to describe Rachel (Gen. 29:17). So, why did the biblical writer include such detail in describing Joseph’s advantages in life? The answer clearly lies in the pitfalls that accompany success. This young man had the hand of God upon him, and he had looks that caused a crowded room to part like the Red Sea! Yet these very blessings also could present challenges and temptation.


At least one temptation came through Potiphar’s wife. She had fixed her eyes on Joseph, and she was probably used to getting whatever she wanted. Would Joseph sacrifice his integrity for whatever momentary pleasure she could offer? This moment of decision would define his life forever.


Joseph could have rationalized giving into the offer from Potiphar’s wife; after all, he had been taken from his own family and country; now he was a slave whom many might think deserved getting something back for all that had happened to him. But we’ll see that Joseph chose a different path. 



Genesis 39:8-10

8 But he refused. “With me in charge,” he told her, “my master does not concern himself with anything in the house; everything he owns he has entrusted to my care. 9 No one is greater in this house than I am. My master has withheld nothing from me except you, because you are his wife. How then could I do such a wicked thing and sin against God?” 10 And though she spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her or even be with her.


Adam and Eve faced forbidden fruit in the garden of Eden, and now Joseph faced his own forbidden fruit: the wife of a powerful man! Joseph would not take the bait, though; in fact, he tried to talk sense to the immoral woman, calling attention to the blessings her husband had given to him. She was off limits and Joseph knew it. Joseph even reminded her why she was off limits: “You are his wife.” She was “forbidden fruit” that he should not—and would not—pursue. He knew what was at stake, and one wrong move would mean disaster. Joseph refused to fall under her spell and shielded himself from her arrows.


How did Joseph muster the inner strength to refuse? How did he stand firm when so many other men fell into the trap of sexual temptation? Joseph’s “secret” was that he made a decision long before that day—a decision to pursue God above all things. He had already determined to please God with his life. What was foremost in Joseph’s mind was not how Potiphar would react, but how God would.


When it comes to temptation, it’s impossible to avoid every image that the world brings to our eyes. But we don’t just need to watch out for sexual temptation; we are tempted in many ways. Keeping a clean conscience before God is so critical to life. Joseph was committed to keeping his life and his conscience pure and we must be too. 


Many Christians live as if they never will have to deal with temptation and trials. They think they are immune to the attacks of the enemy. This is not reality. Sadly, King David could testify to that. He was in a successful season of life when he let down his guard and sinned against God. David gave in to temptation with another man’s wife, placing pleasure above purity and destroying numerous lives in the process (2 Sam. 11).


Countless people have committed the same mistake. Is there grace for our failures? Of course. But the consequences can be intensely painful. The wise course is to “pre-decide” what you will do when temptation appears. God’s Word provides the guide. Set your standards high and commit to them now. Like Joseph, your faith-stretching seasons are on schedule, but be resolved to trust the Lord courageously.


Question 3:

What core convictions do you lean on during times of Temptation?



Genesis 39:11-12

11 One day he went into the house to attend to his duties, and none of the household servants was inside. 12 She caught him by his cloak and said, “Come to bed with me!” But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the house.


Joseph may have been a slave, but he lived and worked in an enviable position as a slave. Yet, as Potiphar’s wife grabbed hold of Joseph, he knew that his situation was over if he didn’t sprint out the door. She had made similar advances before—in fact, “day after day,” (v. 10)—but perhaps others were in the house on those occasions. It appeared this occasion was different, so that Joseph sensed only one option: run! In an aggressive moment, his cloak was ripped from his body, and he escaped to safety, “he left his cloak in her hand.” Joseph fled immorality. 


Question 4:

What lies might hinder us from fleeing temptation?


The apostle Paul may have had this story in mind centuries later as he challenged the loose lifestyle of the church in Corinth: “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body” (1 Cor. 6:18). Those who plunge into sexual immorality will have to deal with the baggage that comes with it. This is why Joseph provides such a vivid picture of the Christian response to pornography, adultery, and all forms of lustful fantasy. Little sins lead to bigger sins, so run from the first hint of it just as Joseph did.


Running from temptation is a key to our survival when facing spiritual warfare. If we focus too heavily on this topic, however, we could miss the forest for the trees. More important than running away from sin is the daily decision to walk closely with Jesus. Jesus came to earth so that we could walk near to Him. As Jesus prepared to complete the task for which He came—being the sacrifice for our salvation—He assured His disciples that His going would mean the Spirit’s coming—and this would prove to be far better. God is with us at all times, and His Holy Spirit leads us into the truth. We should not simply focus on what we’re running from but on what we’re running toward. The pursuit of God is a far more appealing goal than the mere avoidance of sin. 


Question 5:

What strategies have you found helpful in overcoming temptation? 


TEMPTED!


Use the acronym below to record situations and circumstances you experience that often lead to temptation. An example has been provided. Then write a prayer asking God to help you overcome.


                      T oo much time


E


M


P


T


E


D 


My Prayer:

_______________________________



“You cannot keep birds from flying in the air over your head, but you can prevent them from building a nest in your hair.”

MARTIN LUTHER


LIVE IT OUT

Remembering what is at stake helps us overcome temptation. Choose one of the following applications:


  • Take stock. Do you find it difficult to walk away from certain temptations? Ask God to help you form a plan to fight repeating temptations in your life.


  • Partner up. Sometimes the best gift God can give us in the face of temptation is a godly friend. Reach out to a friend this week and ask if they will hold you accountable to a specific temptation you are trying to avoid.


  • Begin a fast. One of the ways to overcome temptation is to train our minds using a spiritual discipline like fasting. This week, choose to devote TV time to devotional reading, developing friendships, or taking prayer walks.


As we say no to the little temptations, we grow in our ability to say no to the larger things also. Let’s say no to the flesh and seek the Holy Spirit so we can grow closer to Christ! 

Teacher's Notes:




1. The Pitfall of Betrayal, Temptation, Injustice, Hard Times, Bitterness, Guilt & Grudges

 

What advice would you give a young person about how to avoid giving in to temptation?

 

 

The Point: Remembering what is at stake helps us overcome temptation.

Sin can seem so enticing and compelling on the front end, but afterward, as we deal with the consequences of having given in to the temptation, we see sin from a different perspective. Full of regret, we ask ourselves, “Why did I do what I did? What caused me to give in?”

Joseph was sold by the merchants to a high-ranking Egyptian named Potiphar and eventually became the supervisor of Potiphar’s household. In Genesis 39 we read of how Joseph excelled at his duties, became one of Potiphar’s most trusted servants, and was put in charge of his household. Potiphar could see that, whatever Joseph did, God looked favorably on him, and he prospered in all that he did. Unfortunately, Potiphar’s wife attempted to seduce Joseph. Joseph consistently refused her advances, showing honor for the master who had entrusted him with so much and saying that it would be "a wicked thing and a sin against God" for him to go to bed with Potiphar’s wife (Genesis 39:9). One day Potiphar’s wife caught Joseph by the cloak and again made sexual advances. Joseph fled, leaving his cloak in her hand. In anger, she falsely accused Joseph of attempted rape, and Potiphar put him in prison (Genesis 39:7–20).

 

The Passages: Genesis 39:1-12

 

What are some temptation dangers we face when things are going well for us?

 

What core convictions do you lean on during times of Temptation?

 

What lies might hinder us from fleeing temptation?

 

What strategies have you found helpful in overcoming temptation?

 

 

Genesis 39:1-7

How can recognizing God’s work in our lives help us resist temptation?

 

Genesis 39:8-10

How would you summarize Joseph’s argument for resisting temptation?

 

Genesis 39:11-12

What temptations do we need to run from in our daily lives?

 

What difference has it made in your life to know that the Lord is with you? What are some specific ways His presence has brought blessing to your life?

 

Joseph provided a good model of what to do with standards. When Potiphar’s wife made advances to him, he stood his ground. And when standing his ground wasn’t enough, he ran away (Gen. 39:1-20). From Joseph’s life, I draw three principles:

1.    Have standards in place before you’re ever tempted.

2.    Stand your ground—no matter what.

3.    Run away! Remove yourself from the place where you are tempted.

Let me add a fourth principle straight from Jesus. He taught us to pray, “And do not bring us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one” (Matt. 6:13), so the fourth principle is

 

4.    You can’t do this alone. Lean on Jesus.

 

I am ever thankful to God for revealing Himself through Scripture and giving us the standards by which to live life. My practice has been to spend time in God’s Word. Every. Day. The strength of His Word and His Presence is the only way I can stand.

 

“I have treasured your word in my heart so that I may not sin against you” (Ps. 119:11).

 

One definition of temptation is “to try or test one's faith, virtue, character, by enticement to sin.” It reminds us that being tempted is not a sin, it is an invitation to sin. The Scripture passage reveals us that we have a God who is with us, not only to help us overcome trying circumstances, but to help us overcome temptation.

Having been sold by his brothers to the Ishmaelites (Gen. 37:28) and believed to be dead by his father (Gen. 37:29-35), Joseph is now in Egypt, a slave of a man called Potiphar (Gen. 39:1). But the God who worked to save Joseph from the pit, is the same God who is with him in Potiphar’s house. A change in location does not change God’s promise to “never leave us nor forsake us” (Deut. 31:6).

1. The Blessings of Success (vv. 1-6)

Joseph was successful because the Lord was with him. But success does not come without hard work. This is where God’s faithfulness and human responsibility intersect. We cannot be successful without God, nor can we succeed without hard work. Potiphar saw that the Lord was with Joseph through Joseph’s work, and Potiphar put Joseph in charge of everything. As a result, everything he owned ended up being blessed.

Jesus said that if we are faithful over a few things, He will put us in charge of many things (Matt. 25:23). No matter what circumstances we find ourselves in and no matter how menial the task, we should do “everything for the glory of God” (1 Cor. 10:31). Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., said: “If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets even as a Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music or Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will pause to say, 'Here lived a great street sweeper who did his job well.’”

The success of being blessed is when we are a blessing to others!

 

2. The Seduction of Success (vv.7-10)

There’s a saying: “For every level, there’s another devil.” While success brings incredible blessings, it also comes with intense temptations. Joseph faced a particular type of temptation—seduction. Seduction is especially the enticement of a person to engage in illicit sexual activity. Temptation is inviting, but not enticing, unless it’s tempting. Joseph didn’t refuse because he wasn’t tempted.

Joseph refused for three reasons:

1) It would mean committing adultery.

2) It would mean violating his master’s trust.

3) It would mean sinning against God.

The last reason was the greatest reason. Joseph may have been able to justify sleeping with Potiphar’s wife because it appears Potiphar did not pay much attention to her (v. 6). Joseph did have authority over everything Potiphar owned and may have even justified it to include Potiphar’s wife. Potiphar only withheld her from Joseph, not because he loved her, but simply because she was his wife (v. 9), and Joseph may have justified sleeping with her because she was in a loveless marriage. But no one can justify sinning against God.

Joseph refused to sin against Potiphar, his wife, and God (vv. 8-9). But none of those reasons deterred Potiphar’s wife (v. 10).

 

3. The Fleeing from Seduction (v. 11-12)

First Corinthians 6:18 says, “Flee sexual immorality!” It appears that this is the first time Joseph and Potiphar’s wife are alone. Joseph being accompanied by others may have been one of the ways he resisted temptation. Hebrews 10:23-25 calls upon us to provoke one another to love and good works by not neglecting the gathering of ourselves together. One of the reasons going to church is important is because there is strength in numbers and people of like minds encouraging one another. Fellowship helps us to resist temptation.

Perhaps Joseph flees because the temptation is overwhelming. But God is with him to deliver him. “No temptation has come upon you except what is common to humanity. But God is faithful; he will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to bear it” (1 Cor. 10:13).

Oliver Goldsmith said, “He who fights and runs away may live to fight another day; but he who is battle slain can never rise to fight again.” It is better to retreat from temptation than continue to fight and fall.

 

 

 

 

Conclusion: Success is being faithful to God. However, being faithful doesn’t always look successful. Joseph not only loses his position, but he also ends up in prison (vv. 19-20). But God is still with him, and God is still at work (vv. 21-23). If success is being faithful to God, then we can still be successful in less-than-ideal circumstances, knowing that “all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28).

 

Many lessons can be learned from the story of Joseph and Potiphar. First, God is with us no matter our life situation. At various stages of his life, Joseph was a slave, a prisoner, and a national leader. Wherever Joseph was, God was at work in his life in ways Joseph could not have understood at the time.

 

Second, God calls His people to live pure lives. Joseph refused to join in an adulterous relationship with his master’s wife. Though Joseph’s integrity led to prison rather than a promotion, God later honored Joseph’s faithfulness in a far greater way. In the end, Potiphar would have been servant to Joseph!