Our Prayer

Our Prayer

Heavenly Father, I know that I have sinned against You and that my sins separate me from You. I am truly sorry. I now want to turn away from my sinful past and turn to You for forgiveness. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that Your Son, Jesus Christ, died for my sins, that He was raised from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become my Savior and the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send Your Holy Spirit to help me obey You and to convict me when I sin. I pledge to grow in grace and knowledge of You. My greatest purpose in life is to follow Your example and do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

Tuesday, April 5, 2022

Class Lesson April 10, 2022

 5.  A Life of Persecution 




Question 1:

When have you had to prepare for something you knew would be challenging?


THE POINT

Living like Jesus means being treated as He was.


THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

Many questions related to the Christian life don’t fall into life and death categories:

What’s your favorite version of the Bible?

How can I be a better group member?

If a church has a meal at the end of a service, is that called a potluck or an afterglow?

Questions like these have lower stakes. However, other questions about our walk with Christ carry great weight:

Am I prepared to suffer well?

Am I ready to be hated for the sake of Jesus?

Suffering may not be a common topic of conversation in our lives, but suffering for the sake of Jesus—being persecuted because we follow Him—is something He told us to expect. In John 15 and 16, on the heels of Christ’s command for us to love one another, the Lord warned us to prepare to suffer along with other believers. Jesus wanted to help us understand that living connected to Him means we will be mistreated like He was mistreated. But we can endure the hard times because He is with us and He is worth it.



WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?

John 15:18-21

18 “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. 20 Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21 They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.”


This is a difficult passage to read. It’s difficult, but also beautiful and logical. It’s difficult, because reading that the world hates the followers of Jesus is jarring, even scary, for those of us who follow Jesus. And it’s beautiful, because it reminds us that we have been loved by our Savior and called by that Savior out of a world of death into a world of life. Jesus declared He has chosen us out of this sin-filled, hostile, fallen world.


Jesus’ words are also logical. People who have been brought into the kingdom of God still live in the earthly realm; therefore, they are going to seem weird, wrong, and out of place to the people of this world. Our hearts, minds, values, and priorities are foreign to those who are not followers of Jesus. But we are still here—“sticking out” and standing out because we choose not to live like the world.


Verse 20 says we are servants of our Master, Jesus. Throughout this study we’ve seen how our Master wants us to live, love, and obey as we live connected to Him, but His ways are not the ways of the unbelieving world. His ways appear strange to the rest of the world. Christianity is supposed to be strange to the world around us. Following Jesus is supposed to look different. And conflict—even hatred—is inevitable as a result.

Question 2:

When have you seen someone encounter opposition for following Jesus?

What we believe and what the world believes don’t always line up. Our belief and trust in the resurrected Jesus support everything in our lives. We live with a desperate longing for the return of Christ. At times, we live so moved by what He did to give us that hope that we fight against our sinful human nature in order to be like Him. And when we are like Him, we are not like so many others in the world. We are aliens. We are strangers. We “do not belong to the world.”


There comes a point when the culture around us says, “We won’t take this ‘Jesus stuff’ anymore.” The thinking of the kingdom of heaven is too foreign and offensive to the culture that the followers of Jesus are persecuted just as Jesus was persecuted. As Jesus said, “If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also” (v. 20). When we bear the name of Jesus and live like Jesus, persecution is sure to come.

John 15:22-25

22 “If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin; but now they have no excuse for their sin. 23 Whoever hates me hates my Father as well. 24 If I had not done among them the works no one else did, they would not be guilty of sin. As it is, they have seen, and yet they have hated both me and my Father. 25 But this is to fulfill what is written in their Law: ‘They hated me without reason.’ ”


When Jesus said, “If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin,” He was not saying He brought sin upon those who heard Him. What He brought was a full picture and realization of the truth and an opportunity for people to accept Him.


No one is without excuse. Even those without a gospel witness have the general revelation of nature to point them to God (Rom. 1:18-20). Jesus is talking about those who clearly have no excuse, for they saw and heard Jesus Christ, the Son of God. The Jewish people witnessed the best thing that could ever happen to them—Jesus Himself.


Tragically, they rejected that which they needed most. Having witnessed what they needed most and rejecting it, they remained in their sin.


The people saw Jesus serve extravagantly. Jesus taught passionately. Jesus healed lovingly. He ushered in a new kingdom of repentance that leads to life, showing people that He was the answer to their deepest need. The people saw all this, and they violently opposed Him. For many, the truth was revealed, but hatefully rejected. This is still happening today.


We were at a restaurant with some friends from church, including a woman who was new to our church. During dinner, she shared how her eyes had been opened to who Jesus is. She was from a Muslim family, but by the Holy Spirit working through the gospel, she became so clearly convinced of her need for Christ that she was willing to make the huge break from her culture, accept Christ, and become a Christian. She said she had been so excited about what she was experiencing in Jesus that she thought her parents would be open to the gospel as well. But, when she shared with them what God had done in her heart, her father told her to leave the house; he never wanted to see her again. I asked her when she had last seen her family, and her answer was surreal. She said, “I haven’t seen them in a few years. I talk to my mom every once in a while, but she tells me to stay away because my dad wants me dead.”


The truth was there. She embraced the truth in Jesus. She shared that same truth with her family, but they so thoroughly rejected the truth that they kicked her out and even threatened to kill her. We hate to hear that, but it is the reality of two worlds—two kingdoms—coming into conflict. The world continues to reject Jesus despite the beautiful truth He has revealed.

Question 3:

What is it about Jesus that many people find objectionable?


John 16:1-4a

1 “All this I have told you so that you will not fall away. 2 They will put you out of the synagogue; in fact, the time is coming when anyone who kills you will think they are offering a service to God. 3 They will do such things because they have not known the Father or me. 4a I have told you this, so that when their time comes you will remember that I warned you about them.”


Those who hate Jesus also hate His followers, and they don’t just express this hate in their emotions; they also display it in their actions. We shouldn’t be shocked; in fact, we should be prepared. Such persecution may be as “mild” as ostracism—“They will put you out of the synagogue”—or as extreme as killing—“The time is coming when anyone who kills you will think they are offering a service to God.”


All the disciples who first heard Jesus speak these words were killed for following Jesus, except John, who wrote this Gospel. And they weren’t the only ones. The early church experienced periods of persecution and martyrdom. For 2,000 years men and women all over the world have suffered and died because they were following Jesus.

Question 4:

How have you seen the teachings of Jesus distorted in our culture?

Jesus wanted His followers to be well aware of what could happen. “I have told you so that you will not fall away.” I hope you hear a ring of encouragement in that. Jesus knows; none of this will ever catch Him by surprise. He is still God, and God is still in control. In addition, He promised the presence of His Holy Spirit in the previous verses (John 15:26-27). Persecution may come, but we’re not alone—and persecution is not the last chapter.

Let your heart be comforted. Persecution is scary, but it can’t impact the outcome. With these words, Jesus was, in a sense, reporting the news as He won the war. Therefore, we don’t anticipate persecution with our fingers crossed hoping things will work out. We anticipate persecution with our hands folded, knowing the battle has already been won. Jesus spoke matter-of-factly about hatred that will certainly come to us, but we can rest confidently in Him because He has already won the battle.

Question 5:

How can Jesus’ warning keep us from stumbling?


Engage


STEADFAST IN SPITE OF EVERYTHING


It’s easy to follow Jesus when everything is going well. We find it more difficult to remain steadfast during opposition. List five ways Christians may experience persecution because of Christ, and then answer the question.


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Choose one of the ways Christians experience persecution (perhaps one you have experienced). How can believers respond well to such adversity?


“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

JOHN 16:33


LIVE IT OUT


Living like Jesus means being treated like He was. Choose one of the following applications:

Make a list. Write down some verses that speak of our hope in Jesus and the hope of heaven. Use these verses to encourage and prepare your heart not to stumble when you face persecution.

Listen. Tune in to an episode of the Voice of the Martyrs podcast this week and pray for the Christians who are being persecuted around the world.

Partner. Join with your small group to identify a missionary serving in a place where Christians are persecuted and, as a group, support them prayerfully and perhaps financially. You can find help with this at imb.org.


Suffering may not be at the top of the list of things we want to talk about as Christians, but it’s a reality. We have fellow Christians around the world today, suffering without stumbling. As we consider persecution this week, let’s pray that God will help us remember His worthiness, rest in His love, and rejoice that He will help us overcome.


Teacher Notes:




Video: David Platt - Radical


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Is our call to follow Jesus any different than His 

call to the disciples?


In the Gospels, Jesus’ command to "follow me" appears repeatedly. In many cases, Jesus was calling the twelve men who would become His disciples. But other times, He was speaking to anyone who wanted what He had to offer.

 

In Matthew 10:34–39, Jesus stated clearly what it means to follow Him. He said, "Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn ‘a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law—a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’ Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it."

Jesus’ bringing a “sword” and turning family members against each other can seem a little harsh after words like "whosoever believes on Him shall not perish" (John 3:16). But Jesus never softened the truth, and the truth is that following Him leads to difficult choices. Sometimes turning back may seem very appealing. When Jesus’ teaching went from the Beatitudes to the coming cross, many who had followed him turned away (John 6:66). Even the disciples decided that following Jesus was too difficult the night He was arrested. Every one of them deserted Him. On that night, following Christ meant possible arrest and execution. Rather than risk his own life, Peter denied that he even knew Jesus three times.

 

To truly follow Christ means He has become everything to us. Everyone follows something: friends, popular culture, family, selfish desires, or God. We can only follow one thing at a time. God states we are to have no other gods before Him. To truly follow Christ means we do not follow anything else. Jesus said in Luke 9:23, "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me." There is no such thing as a "halfway disciple." As the disciples demonstrated, no one can follow Christ by the strength of his own willpower. The Pharisees were good examples of those who were trying to obey God in their own strength. Their self-effort led only to arrogance and distortion of the whole purpose of God’s Law.

 

Jesus gave His disciples the secret to faithfully following Him, but they did not recognize it at the time. He said, "The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing". And "This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father has enabled them”. The disciples had walked with Jesus for three years, learning, observing, and participating in His miracles. Yet even they could not follow Him faithfully in their own strength. They needed a Helper. Jesus promised many times that, once He had ascended to the Father, He would send a "Helper" to them—the Holy Spirit. In fact, He told them that it was for their good that He was going away so that the Holy Spirit could come. The Holy Spirit indwells the heart of every believer. Jesus warned His followers that they were not to begin testifying of Him "until you have been clothed with power from on high". When the Holy Spirit came upon those first believers at Pentecost, they suddenly had all the power they needed to follow Christ, even to the death, if needed.

 

Following Jesus means striving to be like Him. He always obeyed His Father, so that’s what we strive to do. To truly follow Christ means to make Him the Boss. That’s what it means to make Jesus Lord of our lives. Every decision and dream is filtered through His Word with the goal of glorifying Him in everything. We are not saved by the things we do for Christ but by what He has done for us. Because of His grace, we want to please Him in everything. All this is accomplished as we allow the Holy Spirit to have complete control of every area of our lives. He explains the Scriptures, empowers us with spiritual gifts, comforts us, and guides us. To follow Christ means we apply the truths we learn from His Word and live as if Jesus walked beside us in person.

 

 

Following Jesus means striving to be like Him. The goal of the Christian life is to become more and more like Jesus. We are to serve humbly like Jesus, love like Jesus, and glorify God like Jesus. We will experience great joy as we live in Him. Becoming more like Jesus also means being treated like Jesus. The rejection and even suffering He endured can and will happen to those who follow Him.

 

5. A Life of Persecution

The Point: Living like Jesus means being treated as He was.

The Passages: John 15:18-25; 16:1-4a

 

Setting: Last week Jesus explained the connection of the vine and the branches. This week, He applies that connection to how the world will treat His followers. Christ’s words are significant in an age where believers are surprised by persecution, hardships, and difficulties.

 

John 15:18-21

18 “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. 20 Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21 They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.”

 

1.   The world opposes us when we live like Jesus. Don’t Be Surprised by Their Hatred

Followers of Christ should not be surprised by the hatred of others. Christ said that the world hated Him before they hated them. Those in good standing with the world should be aware of Jesus’s words. He said, “If you were of the world, the world would love its own.”

 

What is He saying here? How can we be in the world but not of the world?

Christians are not to be friends with the world because anyone who wants to be friends with the world is an enemy of God (Jas. 4:4).

 

If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also.

“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.

Is suffering for Christ always going to be a part of being a follower of Christ?

The Bible talks a lot about suffering for the sake of Christ. In the era in which the New Testament was written, followers of Jesus were often ostracized by their own families and communities. Some of the worst persecution came from the religious leaders.

Second Timothy 3:12 says, "Everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted." As in biblical times, many Christians today have found that making a public declaration of faith in Christ can result in imprisonment, beatings, torture, or death. Often those of us in free nations shudder at the thought, but we feel relatively safe. We understand that there are thousands who suffer daily for the sake of Christ and are thankful we don’t have to.

 

Jesus stated clearly what it means to follow Him: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me…" (Luke 9:23–25). Our modern understanding of the phrase "take up their cross and follow me" is often inadequate. In Jesus’ day the cross always symbolized death. When a man carried a cross, he had already been condemned to die on it. Jesus said that, to follow Him, one must be willing to die. We will not all die martyrs’ deaths. We will not all be imprisoned, beaten, or tortured for our faith. So, what kind of death did Jesus mean?

To follow Christ means we die to our own way of doing things. We consider our will, our rights, our passions, and our goals to be crucified on the cross with Him. Our right to direct our own lives is dead to us. Death involves suffering. The flesh does not want to die. Dying to self is painful and goes against our natural inclination to seek our own pleasure. But we cannot follow both Christ and the flesh. Jesus said, "No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God" (Luke 9:62).

 

Suffering in some form is always going to be a part of being a true follower of Christ. Jesus said the path that leads to life is difficult (Matthew 7:14). Our hardship is also a way of identifying with His suffering in a small way.

 

Jesus said if we deny him before men, He will deny us before His Father in heaven. There are many subtle ways to deny Christ. If our actions, words, lifestyle, or entertainment choices do not reflect His will, we are denying Christ. If we claim to know Him but live as though we didn’t, we are denying Christ. Many people choose those forms of denying Christ because they do not want to suffer for Him.

 

Often our greatest suffering comes from within as we battle for control over a heart that must die to its own will and surrender to Christ’s lordship (Romans 7:15–25).

 

 

How should a Christian respond to persecution?

There is no doubt that persecution is a stark reality of living the Christian life. Christian persecution is to be expected: the apostle Paul warned that “everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted” (2 Timothy 3:12). Jesus said that, if they persecuted Him, they will also persecute His followers (John 15:20). Jesus made it clear that those of the world will hate Christians because the world hates Christ. If Christians were like the world — vain, earthly, sensual, and given to pleasure, wealth, and ambition — the world would not oppose us. But Christians do not belong to the world, which is why the world engages in Christian persecution (see John 15:18–19). Christians are influenced by different principles from those of the world. We are motivated by the love of God and holiness, while the world is driven by the love of sin. It is our very separation from the world that arouses the world’s animosity (1 Peter 4:3–4).

 

 

 

John 15:22-25

22 “If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin; but now they have no excuse for their sin. 23 Whoever hates me hates my Father as well. 24 If I had not done among them the works no one else did, they would not be guilty of sin. As it is, they have seen, and yet they have hated both me and my Father. 25 But this is to fulfill what is written in their Law: ‘They hated me without reason.’”

 

When have you seen someone living for Christ cost them a relationship?

 

2.   The world rejects Jesus despite the truth He has revealed. Don’t Be Surprised by Their Response

Jesus reminded the disciples that they were not greater than Him. The world persecuted Him, so they would receive persecution. They hated Jesus, so they would be despised. If they heard Christ, they would listen to them. The disciples would face the same response Jesus faced. He preached a message of righteousness and repentance, and many did not want to hear it. The same would be true of the twelve. They must not be surprised by the responses of the masses because they are receiving the same reactions that Jesus received.

 

John 16:1-4a

1 “All this I have told you so that you will not fall away. 2 They will put you out of the synagogue; in fact, the time is coming when anyone who kills you will think they are offering a service to God. 3 They will do such things because they have not known the Father or me. 4a I have told you this, so that when their time comes you will remember that I warned you about them.”

 

3.   Anticipating persecution will help us have a steadfast faith. Don’t Be Surprised by Their Rationale

Here in this passage, the Lord told them that they would be thrown out of the synagogues.

Jesus was familiar with their actions because they sought to throw Him off a cliff after reading a passage from Isaiah in the synagogue (Luke 4:28-29). This led to His next prediction, the disciples would be killed. As we all know, they killed Jesus, and the disciples were not greater than their master.

The disciples should not be surprised by the action of their foes. They should not be surprised by their rationale. In John 16:2, Jesus said others would think they were persecuting them thinking their actions are a service to God. Paul is indeed a great example of this type of mentality. He sought to destroy the church, but he met Christ on the Damascus Road. Thinking he was working for God, Paul found out that he was a blasphemer and a persecutor (1 Tim. 1:13).

 

 

Conclusion:

Get your head out of the sand! Look and live on the truth of God’s Word. The world is not going to love Christians. Stop trying to seek their approval! When the hatred comes, don’t let your faith plummet or let your faith fall. Expect it. They persecuted Jesus, and you are no greater than Him.











Wednesday, March 30, 2022

Class Lesson April 3, 2022

 4. A Life of Love



Question 1:

When have you been asked to do something that seemed overwhelming at first?


THE POINT

Remaining in Christ means our relationships are marked by love.


THE BIBLE MEETS LIFE

Some things just can’t be done without some level of experience. Imagine trying to bake a cake when you’ve never seen a cake nor tasted one. Or imagine being told to quarterback a professional football team when you’ve never watched a game of football. No amount of discipline will get a cake out of your oven if you don’t have a concept of cake. No force of will is going to move your team down the field if you don’t know what a football is.

In this session, we’ll see Jesus’ command for us to love. Most people see the value and the virtue of this command, but do we really know what love is? In his book, Rethink Your Self, Trevin Wax points out that what people often mean by love is simply the support of others for the version of themselves they have created. He suggests people tend to look for affirmation of the identity they desire, but is that real love?1

Jesus wants us to taste and see His love. Only then can we love one another well.



WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY?

John 15:9-11

9 “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10 If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. 11 I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”

Who doesn’t want joy? That’s why, for many of us, verse 11 is such a favorite passage. It’s a stunning statement: Your joy may be complete. Who doesn’t want complete joy?

We don’t just want it; we are desperate for it. For too many, the search for joy is an exhausting pursuit. You may have a closet of supplies from all the hobbies you’ve embraced and then forgotten, hoping one of them would fill some empty spot in your life. Maybe you check your bank account three times a day hoping to see a more satisfying sum on the bottom line. Skydivers even jump out of planes for the thrill of joy. And then there are CrossFitters, those who pursue fitness to the extreme and seem to pursue joy by pursuing misery!2

Those outside the Christian faith may question whether joy is possible, but God lovingly created us to live in joy. Jesus pointed us to the way we can experience this joy, and it’s found in three words.

  1. Love. Jesus said, “Remain in my love” (v. 9). Jesus’ love is the key to our joy. That makes glorious sense when we remember what His love is like. Jesus came to earth because of His love for us. He came to teach us of the Father’s love and to express that love through His actions and miracles. He showed us love in His response to our sin. In His love for us, Jesus took all our wickedness on Himself. He was nailed to a cross. He died. He was buried. And because of His love for us, He came out of the tomb and wasn’t dead anymore so that we could have victory. This is our Rescuer, the One who gives joy.

Question 2:

How would you describe joy in a Christian’s life?

  1. Remain. We are to remain—continue, abide, tarry, dwell—in Christ’s amazing love for us. When we remain in His love, our joy can be unbroken, but it’s important we remain. It’s that fellowship with Jesus that brings the joy we’re looking for.
  2. Keep. Because of Jesus’ love, we remain in His love. And because of Jesus’ love, we obey His commands. Jesus called us to “keep my commands,” which simply means we should obey the One who loves us. And as we obey His commands, we remain mindful of His love, further compelling us to obey and remain or abide in the love that first led us to obey and abide. It’s an incredible cycle of living in His love.

All of us want complete joy—and Jesus wants us to have it. That is why He calls us to dwell in Him and obey Him. When we do what He has called us to do, we experience His love and joy over and over again. Complete joy.

John 15:12-14

12 “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command.”

No one loves better than Jesus. No love has ever been higher, deeper, wider, or stronger than the love of Christ. No love has impacted more people. The disciples, when they heard this, must have thought it was like being asked to leap a mountain. They knew what Jesus’ love looked like; they had seen the love of Jesus up close and powerful. They’d seen Him heal diseases, mend bones, and silence demons for the people He loved. They’d seen Him weep, teach, and feed. They knew how sparsely He lived. They’d seen Him serve thousands for nothing in return. They didn’t know it yet, but Jesus was about to show them just how far His love would go when He died on the cross for them. With this perfect and extreme example of love before them, they had to weigh the magnitude of what Jesus was saying: “Love each other as I have loved you” (v. 12).

How do we love as Jesus loved? Though the example of Christ seems unattainable, the answer is simple: We try. We experience the love of Jesus (I have loved you) and we obey (love each other). We look at Jesus, and in the power of the Holy Spirit, we love like Jesus loves.

Question 3:

What does sacrificial love look like?


Engage

LOVED AND LOVING

In this session’s passage, Jesus gave a series of actions believers should take as His disciples. Match the following commands with their objects, ideas, or results. Then write a prayer asking for God’s help.






My Prayer:

Sure, we will never achieve that same level of love. We will never love so wonderfully. We may not be able to love to the degree Jesus loved, but we can love in the same manner. We may not see the same impact from our love, but we can share the same heart. We love as we have been loved. That’s the mandate. Be loved and be obedient.

Jesus then clarified His directions in the next sentence. “ ‘Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.’ ” That means the love Christ wants us to have for one another is active. That means our love should be sacrificial. Loving as Jesus loved means having “skin in the game” for the needs of others. It means sacrificing something of ourselves for the sake of others. Obeying in this way is like Jesus’ obedience to the Father. It might hurt or cost us dearly, but we move forward for the sake of the ones we love. H.A. Ironside put it this way:

“It is one thing to talk about love and another to manifest it. I may say I love my mother, and yet refuse to do anything for her when she is sick. Such love counts for very little. . . . Love is manifested by active benevolence and by obedience.”3

So, if we’re not demonstrating our love through acting, we aren’t loving. If our love never requires sacrificing, we are only talking. Jesus laid down His life for us and called us to act in kind: to love as He has loved us.

John 15:15-17

15 “I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. 17 This is my command: Love each other.”

Question 4:

What does friendship with Jesus mean to you?

Many of us approach producing fruit for Jesus without love. Jesus told His followers, “I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last” (v. 16). We want to stick a seed in the ground, walk away, and be overwhelmed by the crop of apples produced. But that’s not how farming works—and that’s not how we produce spiritual fruit that remains. We must bring the “loving, remaining, and keeping” into the process.

But what kind of fruit are we talking about?

Arrow

Some people equate fruit with evangelistic success, meaning how many people you lead to faith in Jesus.

Arrow

Some people connect fruit to acts of service, meaning the ministry you do in the name of Jesus.

Arrow

Some people insist fruit is about personal growth, the character of Jesus that God shapes in you.

We see all three concepts of fruit in Scripture. Merely giving verbal assent to being a follower of Jesus is inadequate. Life change must happen—and continue to happen—as proof of conversion, and people will see that in how we influence others to follow Jesus, perform ministry acts in Jesus’ name, and live with Christ-like, Spirit-filled character.

Love is the “fertilizer” that aids our evangelistic efforts, our service to others, and our character that points to Christ. Jesus repeated His command in verse 17: “This is my command: Love each other.”

Let’s never separate abiding in Jesus and loving like Jesus from serving Jesus and bearing fruit for Jesus. Attempting to bear fruit without abiding and loving is like attempting to grow strawberries without soil or sun. If we want to bear fruit for Christ, we need to show others the love of Christ. We need to help them see our joy of dwelling in Him. We need to help them long to know the same Jesus who has loved us.

Question 5:

What are some ways a believer can bear fruit?

LIVE IT OUT

Remaining in Christ means our relationships are marked by love. Choose one of the following applications:


Remember God’s love. Put a reminder on your phone for a set time each day this week to stop and remember Jesus’ love for you. Block out a little time so you can preach the gospel to yourself and abide in Jesus’ love for you and think about how you can love like Him.

Choose a fellow Christian to love. Think of a fellow Christian you can love in a tangible way this week. Who has a physical need you can help them with? Or who has an emotional need you can speak the love of Christ into? How can you love a fellow disciple sacrificially this week?

Choose someone far from God to love. Pray for someone in your life who does not know Jesus, someone whom you want to see abide in the love you have experienced. What step can you take to love them toward Christ this week?


In Jesus, we’ve seen the greatest love the world has ever known. Remember how He has loved you. Remember how much you’ve needed His love. And take a few minutes to think about what it could look like for you to try to love like Him this week. 


Teacher's Notes:





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Thoughts?


 

We all want people to love us, even though we may find it hard to love some people in return. We know we are supposed to love others but sometimes that’s easier said than done.

 

Jesus taught His disciples the importance of connecting to Him with a vine and branches illustration. He let them know that without Him, they could do nothing. He called them to remain in Him and allow His words to stay in them. And what are His words? - Love one another as He loved them.


 

John 15:9-11

9 “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 10 If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. 11 I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”

Who doesn’t want joy? It’s a stunning statement: Your joy may be complete. Who doesn’t want complete joy?

 

So how exactly do we achieve complete joy?

 

1.   Remain in Jesus’ love and experience His joy

Jesus’ love conveys the Father’s love. Jesus desires that those who follow Him dwell continuously in a relationship of love with Him.

 

What does to remain in Christ really mean?

  • Believing that Christ is God’s Son
  • Receiving Him as Savior and Lord
  • Doing what God says
  • Continuing to believe the gospel
  • Relating in love to the community of believers, Christ’s body

 

Why are love and obedience so closely connected?

  • Evidence of love is seen in one’s commitment to obey the commandments of the Father. Love and obedience are more than burdensome religious obligations; they are the source of an eternal joy that only being in right relationship with Christ can produce. The Lord desires that we experience His love and joy to the fullest.

 

Jesus pointed us to the way we can experience this joy, and it’s found in three words.

 

Love. Remain. Keep.

We are to remain—continue, abide, tarry, dwell—in Christ’s amazing love for us. When we remain in His love, our joy can be unbroken, but it’s important we remain. It’s that fellowship with Jesus that brings the joy we’re looking for.

To keep our life attached to the vine, we need to follow His Word. Jesus remained in His Father’s love because of his obedience, and we remain in Christ’s love the same way. Obedience is a difficult thing for most people. It necessitates doing what God wants us to when we want to do our own thing. The struggle is real. There is no growth without obedience and no fruit.

Because of Jesus’ love, we remain in His love. And because of Jesus’ love, we obey His commands. Jesus called us to “keep my commands,” which simply means we should obey the One who loves us. And as we obey His commands, we remain mindful of His love, further compelling us to obey and remain or abide in the love that first led us to obey and abide. It’s an incredible cycle of living in His love.

 

 

John 15:12-14

12 “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command.”

 

How do we love as Jesus loved?

Though the example of Christ seems unattainable, the answer is simple: We try. We experience the love of Jesus (I have loved you) and we obey (love each other). We look at Jesus, and in the power of the Holy Spirit, we love like Jesus loves.

 

2.   Love calls for personal sacrifice.

The high example of Jesus is the goal set before us for how to live as a people in right relationship with the Father. Disciples of Jesus will love one another. The greatest demonstration of love is to sacrifice self on behalf of another. Jesus laid down His life for us because He loved us. We have the privilege of being friends with Jesus, a relationship in which we serve Him out of mutual love.


What does sacrificial love look like?

 

John 15:15-17

15 “I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. 17 This is my command: Love each other.

 

What kind of fruit are we to produce? What are some ways a believer can bear fruit?

  • Some people equate fruit with evangelistic success, meaning how many people you lead to faith in Jesus.
  • Some people connect fruit to acts of service, meaning the ministry you do in the name of Jesus.
  • Some people insist fruit is about personal growth, the character of Jesus that God shapes in you.


We see all three concepts of fruit in Scripture. Merely giving verbal assent to being a follower of Jesus is inadequate. Life change must happen—and continue to happen—as proof of conversion, and people will see that in how we influence others to follow Jesus, perform ministry acts in Jesus’ name, and live with Christ-like, Spirit-filled character.


3.   Produce spiritual fruit by loving others.

The Lord Jesus reveals the truth from the Father. The Lord initiated our relationship with Him; we have no grounds to demand anything from Him and nothing to merit a relationship with Him. Because we are His friends, chosen by Him, He expects us to live spiritually productive lives. Our relationship with Jesus opens the door for us to approach the Father with confidence that He will provide for our needs. The command of Jesus is simple and forthright: Love one another.

 

Many of us approach producing fruit for Jesus without love.

 

Love is the “fertilizer” that aids our evangelistic efforts, our service to others, and our character that points to Christ. Jesus repeated His command in verse 17: “This is my command: Love each other.”

Let’s never separate abiding in Jesus and loving like Jesus from serving Jesus and bearing fruit for Jesus. Attempting to bear fruit without abiding and loving is like attempting to grow strawberries without soil or sun. If we want to bear fruit for Christ, we need to show others the love of Christ. We need to help them see our joy of dwelling in Him. We need to help them long to know the same Jesus who has loved us.

 

LIVE IT OUT

In Jesus, we’ve seen the greatest love the world has ever known. Remember how He has loved you. Remember how much you’ve needed His love. And take a few minutes to think about what it could look like for you to try to love like Him this week.



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Yes, what the world needs now is love—love as Christ loved us and gave Himself for us (Eph. 5:2).