Class Lesson January 15, 2012

Hey Gang,

Our lesson this week says that we live in a culture that actually sees some people as disposable, having no real value. Can you believe that? As Christians we are called to oppose what is wrong and support what is right. People that are considered expendable, end up on the trash heap of history and many of them need to be cared for; their plights are physical and spiritual. In the case of some, it is a matter of life and death, because they are powerless to defend themselves. The hand of God should guide our care of each of these precious lives.  

God values life and so should we. Let’s show respect for others by treating them as God sees them and values them.

Yes, it's Sanctity of Human Life Sunday and most of the time this lesson deals with the subject of abortion. Not to minimize the importance of this topic, but many times other sanctity of human life issues go unnoticed - can you name them?

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 Disposable

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Define expendable. Who are the expendable in our society?

• Expendable = For use or consumption; not worth preserving; not really necessary; can be sacrificed for the sake of an objective.

• Prevalence of abortion, human trafficking, euthanasia, and elder, spouse, and child abuse reveals this culture’s view that anything or anyone that doesn’t benefit me can be tossed.

• Most of us are not uncaring, but it may be difficult to naturally show care for the vulnerable and unlovely.

Psalm 139

Our study of Psalm 139 will show us just how God views people. God not only knew the psalmist intimately, He knew everything about him. God knew his words and deeds, his thoughts and intentions. God’s knowledge grew out of the fact that He had created him and formed him in his mother’s womb. David, as all human beings, was fearfully and wonderfully made. David’s psalm illustrates God’s love for all people. And because God loves all people, He values all people, and because He values them, He has a plan for them. The challenge we face as we study this psalm is to evaluate our own actions (or inaction's) that either devalue people or usurp the plans God has for them. Three important truths from Psalm 139 this week: God values us, God has a plan for us, and God is with us.

I. GOD VALUES US – PSALM 139:1-6

1 LORD, You have searched me and known me. 2 You know when I sit down and when I stand up; You understand my thoughts from far away. 3 You observe my travels and my rest; You are aware of all my ways. 4 Before a word is on my tongue, You know all about it, LORD. 5 You have encircled me; You have placed Your hand on me. 6 This extraordinary knowledge is beyond me. It is lofty; I am unable to reach it. 

King David authored many of the psalms; this is one of his. David's focus was one thing: God knew him intimately. Who knows you better than anyone else? What is the benefit of knowing someone? Does this give you more reason to value them?



If you knew everything about a person – all his or her secrets – what might be your attitude about the person? What is God’s attitude, evidenced by His actions, about you? 

 What if I knew more?

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Does it frighten you or comfort you to be so completely known by God?

• God knows each believer.
• God knows everything about each one.
• Some people view this as stifling control.
• Others see it as His awesome protection.

If I were to crumple up and trample a $20 bill, would it still be valuable? What does this say about people our culture considers expendable?

• No matter what people have been through, even brought on themselves, they still matter.
• Everyone is valuable, even those who have abortion in their past. God’s grace restores all who repent and seek His forgiveness.

How can the elderly HOLD their value?



How would seeing yourself as valuable help you regard others as valuable? Would this also help you treat them so? Does God's value of you give you reason to value others?

II. GOD HAS A PLAN FOR US – PSALM 139:13-16

13 For it was You who created my inward parts; You knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14 I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. 15 My bones were not hidden from You when I was made in secret, when I was formed in the depths of the earth. 16 Your eyes saw me when I was formless; all my days were written in Your book and planned before a single one of them began.

This passage is sometimes used to encourage and uplift those who feel confused or listless. However, it is one of the most profound and faith-altering passages in all of scripture: God has loved us since before we took our first breath. What an amazing truth. What an amazing God. This should change our lives not only in our big-picture planning but also in our day-to-day activities.
 

How can we tell what’s God’s plan and what’s not God’s plan? Why does God’s plan sometimes take time?  Are our elder years part of God's plan? Is our pre-birth time also part of God's plan?






Do you think medical advancements have added to or taken away from the majesty and mystery of birth? What is the contrast to the cultural and biblical view of conception? Why is life valuable, period?

• God is involved in conception and in the development of life within the womb. These things are not purely biological in nature.
• The unborn child is a human being.
• God creates each person in the womb and endows each with the same image of God given to the first pair.
• God has a purpose for people before they are born.
• None of the differences between an unborn child and a new-born baby is significant enough to consider the unborn child to be less than human.
• Since the unborn child is a human being, that life is to be nurtured and protected, not threatened or taken.

Think about things you are intimately involved in creating. Do you make those things just to forget about them or for a purpose? Why does God create each person? How do these verses affirm the valuable purpose of not just the unborn but the homebound, handicapped, and terminally ill? 

• Believers need to speak up not only to affirm each life is wonderful but to defend each person’s, born and unborn, right to life.
• We don’t have to justify anyone’s existence.
• Every person, even those severely handicapped, is more like us than unlike us. One way to show love is to find a commonality and to build a friendship on it.

 

III. GOD IS WITH US – PSALM 139:17-18

17 God, how difficult Your thoughts are for me to comprehend; how vast their sum is! 18 If I counted them, they would outnumber the grains of sand; when I wake up, I am still with You. 

What was the psalmist finding difficult to comprehend about God? Can you relate to his overwhelmed state?
 


God is so amazing that we can't begin to take it in. It simply indescribable that He cares so much. And though we feel loved and comforted at the thought of God actively loving us; we sometimes live our adult lives wondering if He's still really involved or interested at all.

What circumstances have caused you to doubt God's presence or love?

Who are the expendable in society? What is our responsibility to them? How can we as a class work together to value and defend life? How can we individually value life on a daily basis? 



Below is an article I read this week. Read it and tell me what you think?

Our Disposable Society

  By: Michelle and Charles Wise 

Our nation is caught up in the problems of today. If you ask the people of America, "Is our society broken?" many would respond with an overwhelming "Yes!" We are worried about the economy, environment, stock market, and losing our homes. Many of us feel broken by the stress of every day life and how we are going to pay the rent or the bills. But the real judge of how broken our society has become is the state of our elderly.


The President has recently thrown our seniors a bone and is giving them each $250 for the stimulus. Is that a joke? Most seniors need a lot more than that token gesture. We have forgotten that many of them had invested their retirement in the stock market and trusted individuals to make sound decisions for them. They have taken a hard hit to their means of survival and some will be forced from their homes. I have heard several even debating that they might need to get back into the work force to make ends meet. But with a society that doesn't think that older is necessarily wiser, could they really get a job? How could we be so busy and self absorbed to forget about those who have come before us? Our tunnel vision is just that, we are focused on our problems. Who has time to be focused on Mom or Dad, when we have kids to support and lives to live? We are forgetting that many of them have had to bail us out time and time again when we needed them. We are trying to solve our problems, but what about theirs?


When we think back on our seniors it should be with reverence. Have they not paved our proverbial road? They made our country what it is today with blood, sweat and tears. Are they to be forgotten? What about their legacy and stories, those that go back generations? Do we listen as tentatively as we should? Do we care?


I am a Home Health Nurse and when I think about many of my patients, many of them are facing a crisis of "Should I buy food or get my medications this month"? "Do I need to sell my home or file bankruptcy?" Many of them are facing large looming medical bills that they thought Medicare would cover. If they don't have supplemental health insurance it is now too late to purchase it or it is too expensive. Many "nice" retirement homes or assisted livings charge an exorbitant amount monthly. Seniors have to spend all of their savings and then when they run through that hope they can transition to a Medicaid bed. This is an equivalent of a housing project, where they get to look forward to their monthly Social Security check being signed over to the nursing home for their care.


All I can say to the "Baby Boomers" is you better be prepared. The system is a mess and you are about to jump off into the deep end. Start planning and hope that you have been nice to your children. Because most of them have seen you make excuses for not wanting your Mom or Dad to move into your home; because they are too much trouble; have medical problems that would be better suited for medical professionals; have Alzheimer's and they would be too hard to supervise; or better yet you are just too busy. These are the examples that are being set.

What it really has come down to is that the family unit does not look like it once did. In the past generations of America, and presently in most other countries around the world, the elderly are revered and treated with respect. They are brought into the family home, to live as a "family." To have dinners, share stories of the past, and celebrate their last days. We need to get back to these traditions before it is too late.


It should not be an option that Gramma will go to the nursing home. It should be a last resort! Grandmother or Grandfather is brought "home", no questions asked. Our elderly should be treasured, not placed out on the curb for recycling or put out to pasture in some slum nursing home. They fought wars, built our cities, and gave us life. Are we really too busy, or just too blind to see all that we owe?


I can't tell you how many sad, depressed, lonely seniors I see on a daily basis. It breaks my heart because many of them don't have a voice or a family to care or hear it. Many are waiting to go off to heaven and a life beyond because their families have left them to die. Or else they feel that they are a burden and that they have nothing left to contribute. How sad it is when they have given everything and the only thing they have to look forward to is spending their last days worthless and alone.


What I want to know is this - what were the 60's and 70's about, was it a revolt from the stifling ways of your parents? Was it is about free choice and no responsibilities? Doing what feels good and about instant gratification? This mentality has made us so used to the fast food world of it all. We have made computers, televisions, and radios that are so cheap we just replace them. We have become a disposable society. Now our parents are in that same boat. Is this what we really wanted? When the "Baby Boomers" raised their children this way, was this the example they really wanted to set? In my house it was. "Do what feels good and right at the time--we will pay for the consequences later." When I look at our youth, it's apparent that the time has come to pay the bill. Children these days have all sorts of problems and it is a direct reflection on our society. What is empathy? What is selflessness? What is doing good for others without getting anything in return?


Many families live in other states far away from Gramma and Grandpa on purpose, and like it that way. That way it is harder to be bothered, and besides that, someone else can take care of their folks. What's even worse, there are others who live in the same towns, but don't make them the priority.


The common thread seems to be this, that "The Golden Years" are not too golden. Now that I'm out on the front lines, I can say with assurance that there isn't much to look forward to. In fact, most of my seniors, the ones who have the luxury to be in their own homes and perhaps still with a spouse, tell me to have fun while you can. Don't wait until you retire to start living your life, because there's nothing to look forward to once you get old.


Not everything was meant to be recycled. I want those who have elderly people in their lives to stop and take a minute with this article. I want you to ask yourself, "Am I doing all that I can to make my parent(s) comfortable and happy?" "Am I failing the ones who paved our road?" The next question you might ask yourself is this: "Will this be me in ten or fifteen years?" The decision is yours. Will you be trash or treasure?
 

End of article.

Prayer of Commitment

Lord, help me live with reverence for this sanctity of human life, and help me make my stand clear. Amen

 
Please be in prayer this week for this lesson as it speaks to so many issues we are facing right now. Have a blessed rest of the week as we continue in God's unchanging truths for a radically changing world.

See you on Sunday! 


In His Love,

David & Susan



 

Class Lesson January 8, 2012

Hey Gang,

Our lesson series says that Americans live in a culture that has drifted off course. Many adults base their thinking and lifestyles on what the popular culture endorses. The good news is that believers can stand for Christ and what is right in the midst of a culture that no longer understands truth. This week we look at the impact SEX in our culture has on our daily walk. 

Love & Sex

FLAME - Rob Bell
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Hebrew and Greek words for Love: Raya (Phileo), Dod (Eros), Ahava (Agape).

What messages does our culture send about sensuality? How often? What’s the problem with buying into these messages?

• A vast majority of the estimated 3,000 advertisements that reach consumers daily use sensuality to sell their product. Selfish insistence on physical pleasure has torn apart families, churches, and nations. 

• Television, movies, and music promote sexual immorality as the norm and ridicule the notion of reserving sexual intimacy for marriage.

• Distracts me from my spouse; takes advantage of others; leads to more sin; rejects love.

• Our culture is against purity.

Our lesson says that we should identify how we have been influenced by sensual messages and choose to walk a life of purity in love, light and wisdom.

• Have we separated the flames?
• 2nd Half of Marriage

 Ephesians 5:1-16

Most of the time when people think of Ephesians chapter 5, they go straight to verse 22, where it says wives submit to your husbands. And verses 22 - 33 do take into account wives and husbands relational roles, but it's important to understand verses 1 - 21 leading up to this infamous section of scripture because it sets the very tone of the remaining verses. Verses 1 - 21 are a Wake-Up call to believers that are submitting to the Wrong things. The culture's way is not the way you are to submit to and verse 21 sets the right tone for the following verses: "Submit to one another out of reverence to Christ." 

True Ahava is submission to one another in Christ!

America and the Greco-Roman World

The city of Ephesus – to whom Paul wrote this letter to – likely, reflected a society similar to 21st Century America. Ephesus was the capital of the Roman province of Asia. Ephesus’s greatest claim to fame was her responsibility as the official “temple keeper” of Artemis, a fertility/mother goddess. Scholars are divided on whether fertility rites (sexual orgies), were part of the worship of this idol. However, all agree that sexual immorality was rampant in Ephesus. Extramarital affairs, prostitution, promiscuity, homosexuality, and bisexuality were common. It was just as difficult for the Ephesian believers in 61 A.D. to seek purity as for Christians in 2012. Yet Paul told every believer there must not be even a hint of impurity in their lives. Christians cannot use the moral degeneration of their culture as an excuse to relax the moral standards God has clearly laid out in His Word.

 

I. WALK IN LOVE – EPHESIANS 5:1-5

1 Therefore, be imitators of God, as dearly loved children. 2 And walk in love, as the Messiah also loved us and gave Himself for us, a sacrificial and fragrant offering to God. 3 But sexual immorality and any impurity or greed should not even be heard of among you, as is proper for saints. 4 Coarse and foolish talking or crude joking are not suitable, but rather giving thanks. 5 For know and recognize this: Every sexually immoral or impure or greedy person, who is an idolater, does not have an inheritance in the kingdom of the Messiah and of God.


How does the sexual overload in society invade our view of self, our view of home, or our view of relationships?

• We tend to imitate where we spend our time.

• Paul opens in the first two verses with the standard for love – imitate Jesus. This means walking in love and behaving in a way that God will be pleased to see what you do and say. If we understand the “how” of living in purity then it will help us recognize the “how not” in life. Kindness, sharing, and respect help us understand the rules.

Has anyone ever demonstrated this kind of love behavior to you? How did it affect you?


The next three verses lay out a list of intolerable behaviors. You may practice them for a time, but in the end these behaviors will steal rather than deliver. They are counterfeits. We should avoid and be intolerant of such behaviors in ourselves and from others – these behaviors are sexual impurity and greed. Each is a form of idolatry because each worships self and pleasures.


Sexual immorality and any impurity covered every kind of illicit sexual activity – all sexual intercourse outside its God-ordained context in a loving marriage between a man and a woman. Moral life in Paul’s day had sunk so low that people who engaged in sexual immorality met no opposition. Impurity, a more general term, referred to a full range of unclean thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and any other form of sexual corruption.



Now, a good question would be, how do we show a lack of tolerance without a lack of love? How do we engage in such conversations without condescension with anyone? How do we help in ways besides talking? What gives someone the courage to stop or to refuse greed and sexual sins? 

• Believers are to imitate God in His love and forgiveness.

• To walk in love as Christ did, we must learn to imitate Him. How did Jesus show the value of people?

How would you respond to the following?

1. I’m in a social gathering and someone says something offensive or dishonoring to the Lord - everybody laughs what should I do?  
2. An adult family member decides to move in and live with someone they intend to marry – what should I say or do?

Why isn’t sexual immorality love? 

• Sensuality sees people as sexual objects. When we walk in Christ’s love, we see people as having great physical and spiritual value and consequently seek to give them what they need rather than what we can get out of them.

• Sex is a spiritual thing.

Why did Paul make a big deal out of our speech anyway? Why is thanksgiving an effective antidote to vulgarity’s poison? 

• Language is a gateway to behavior. When we make light of sexual sin with joking and innuendos, it’s easy to assume people are there for our pleasure and to move toward using them.

• Thanksgiving focuses attention on God. Rude and crude talk focuses attention on self.

How do you interpret verse 5? 

• This verse does not mean that a believer may lose salvation due to a sexual sin but that someone participating in these actions is not living and acting as a child of God.

• No one who persists in such sins is part of God’s kingdom.

Points:

1. Sexual sins are especially serious.

2. Such sins may be committed by what we think, what we say, or what we do.

3. Such sins are totally inappropriate for Christians.

4. Christians should avoid relationships that are potentially compromising.


II. WALK IN LIGHT – EPHESIANS 5:8-12

8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light— 9 for the fruit of the light results in all goodness, righteousness, and truth— 10 discerning what is pleasing to the Lord. 11 Don’t participate in the fruitless works of darkness, but instead expose them. 12 For it is shameful even to mention what is done by them in secret.


Oil and water, sand and sea, light and dark – these cannot coexist. Paul used light and darkness to contrast our lives before and after our saving faith in Christ. As we learn to trust and obey Jesus, then our lives will become a delightful journey of goodness, righteousness, truth, and fruitfulness.



What does light accomplish? How does living as light result in those accomplishments? Why use darkness as a metaphor for sexual impurity? Why use light to describe believers?

• Impurity contradicts love.

• Light produces fruit. Light helps you see where to go. It shows the good stuff.

Why are the works of darkness fruitless? How does participation in this sensual culture dim our light? 

• Sexual misbehavior, whether committed in body or mind, cannot produce anything that benefits you or others.

Why are some topics better left unmentioned? How can we expose shameful deeds if we’re not to mention them? How can we leave our light on?

• We don’t necessarily have to speak up to expose sexual immorality and if we do it needs to be in love. Explore what works and doesn’t work.
• We expose the darkness of immorality by shinning the light of a consistently pure lifestyle.
• Turn off the dark. Replace any form of impurity, including speaking and viewing habits, with good activities. Expose sexual immorality; don’t excuse or rationalize it. Show genuine care.

Paul says in verse 8 that not only should we be different but we must also walk differently.




Are sexual, crude, or coarse jokes harmless?

• We cannot consider sensual talk harmless. We cannot assume crude jokes are funny or coarse talk is hilarious. Verse 12 takes an even harsher stand against those acts of darkness: We are not to even mention them.

We won’t defeat the darkness, so we must focus on deliberately conducting ourselves in Christ’s light.


Points:

1. When people turn to Christ, they are changed from darkness to light.

2. Christians should live as children of light.

3. Christians should rebuke the works of darkness.

III. WALK IN WISDOM – EPHESIANS 5:15-16

15 Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk—not as unwise people but as wise— 16 making the most of the time, because the days are evil.

The Internet is full of videos that have captured people tripping. Hilarious, right? Certainly – unless you’re the one who fell. Falling is even worse if it’s a relationship fall, a work fall, or a character fall.



In what ways are you wise in how you walk in relationships, work, character, or other areas? When are you tempted to dabble in darkness?



By heeding Christ’s wisdom, we can truly walk with loving actions. Most of us can recall when one careless step – tripping over a toy, sliding on ice, stubbing a toe – led to suffering because we were not paying attention. How much deeper the pain is when we’ve mistreated a person or made a foolish choice.



The unwise will always walk differently from the wise, simply because the goals and focus of the two stand in stark contrast to one another. Fools despise wisdom and resist discipline. They want what they want when they want it. Therefore, if our walk – the way we conduct our actions and relationships – cannot be differentiated from those who do not know God, we don’t walk in wisdom. We must daily analyze our words, actions, and thoughts to be sure they imitate Christ. We discern what pleases the Lord to choose goodness, righteousness, and truth. These are just a few indicators that God guides our steps.



How regularly should we as believers confess our sins and invite Christ to expose our weaknesses? How can the evil of society propel us to walk more closely to Christ, not pull away from Him?



Describe a believer living wisely in our sensual culture. Why can even a believer lose focus? Why is seeking pleasure an unwise way to spend life?

• Wise believers purposefully seek purity, or sin will snag them. Our default mode gravitates to self-indulgence and doing what feels good. Even though Christ has changed our default mode from darkness to light, we need to keep the light on.

• We live both in the light of Christ and in a dark world. Satan will put people and events in our lives to trip us up. We must stay on our guard. Never arrogantly think, I’d never do that.

Why would using our time wisely keep us from getting tripped up by impurity? Some think the best use of time is to work until they collapse. How might that result in impurity? What activities and attitudes make the most of time?

• Our use of time is not neutral.

• Watching a clean TV show or reading a book that doesn’t compromise God’s moral standards may be a wise use of time if it recharges our batteries and helps us refocus.

• Investing in people who make you wiser.

Points:

1. God gives wisdom to those who seek it in Him.

2. Those who receive wisdom should walk in it.



Our culture evidences many of the sins of the culture of the first-century Greco-Roman world. Theirs was a sexually immoral society, so is ours. Sensuality was its leading sin, but other sins were involved also. These included drunkenness and selfishness. Paul delivered God’s message about being pure in a sensual society. He called Christians to walk in love, to walk in light, and to walk in wisdom.



Will we seek purity in this sensual culture by default or by choices? What conscious choices must we make to enjoy purity? 

• God’s pure plan for intimacy provides security, satisfaction, love, and safety.

Prayer of Commitment

Lord, help me to be faithful to You in the midst of our sensual culture. Amen

This may not be the easiest topic to discuss, but no one can ignore that it is an important issue that Christians face everyday. Put this lesson in prayer this week as we come together this Sunday to discuss.

See you on Sunday!

In His Love,

David & Susan 

Class Lesson January 1, 2012

Hey Gang,

This new study series looks at five issues facing our culture. It's not too difficult for Christians to see that Americans today live in a culture that has drifted off course. Many adults base their thinking and lifestyles on what the popular culture endorses. This study tackles five issues head on and shows us the biblical counterpart to a culture gone awry. Adults can stand for Christ and what is right in the midst of a culture that no longer understands truth.

Lessons in this series:

January 1 - Thriving in a Fast-Food Culture – Make the best use of the body God gave you.

January 8 – Seeking Purity in a Sensual Culture – Embrace people-treating actions you, God, and others can be proud of.

January 15 – Caring in an Expendable Culture – Participate in God’s plan and purpose for each individual.

January 22 – Loving in a Divided Culture – Identify your prejudices and compare them to God’s Word.

January 29 – Giving in a Greedy Culture – Identify needs of people around you.

Why should we be concerned with our bodies? Or, why are we overly concerned with them?

• Some fall into the trap of self-worship, focusing entirely too much on food, weight, and appearance. Others swing the pendulum to completely ignore those actions that enable a healthy lifestyle. These two extreme attitudes toward our bodies – obsession and neglect – could not be more different. But neither attitude is what Christ desires for us.

Our lesson this week says that we should make the best use of the body God gave us by aligning with Christ, avoiding the harmful, and adopting the beneficial.

I. ALIGN WITH CHRIST – ROMANS 13:12-14
12 The night is nearly over, and the daylight is near, so let us discard the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. 13 Let us walk with decency, as in the daylight: not in carousing and drunkenness; not in sexual impurity and promiscuity; not in quarreling and jealousy. 14 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no plans to satisfy the fleshly desires.


Paul urged believers to seize every opportunity to represent Christ in daily life. What a perfect focus on this first day of the New Year!


In verse 12, Paul spoke of the night and darkness. He says that deeds done in darkness are actions we want to hide. Whereas deeds of the daylight bring clarity, togetherness, and solutions. They are based on truth, knowledge, purity, and solidity. There are no pain-causing or secret motives. Daytime activities reflect the light of Christ (John 1:4-5). They show love, as defined by God. We don’t mind people seeing us do them or knowing we do them. We assume they’d be proud of us for those.


Consider a time in your life when you were living in darkness. Was it caused by a secret sin or a stubborn rebellion or something else? How did Christ bring that to light? How are you living in light now?


Paul continued by listing the different types of dark behavior. For many boomers, these first four sins seem to belong to the younger generations, but Satan will find a way to yank us toward something like these. Plus, few believers of any generation can pretend that the last two in Paul’s list – quarreling and jealousy – do not apply to our own lives.


What sins of darkness mark our generation? In what ways do we pretend they don’t matter?


So how do we escape darkness and enter into light? Action by deliberate action. We simply – but intentionally – put on the Lord Jesus Christ. We accept His rule, His power, His protection. Like many aspects of the Christian life, this is not a one-time decision. It is a day-by-day, situation-by-situation mind-set to choose actions of light when we are tempted to escape into the darkness.


What situations tempt you to live in darkness? How are you allowing Christ to bring you into His light?


It all begins with our relationship with Christ. How can we put Him on if we don’t know Him? And if we don’t get to know Him, how are we going to have a closer relationship with Him? Without that relationship, we cannot possibly live in the light; the darkness of our world is simply too strong. Are you savoring His Word? Do you call on Him throughout the day? Do you listen to His guidance? This is how we put Him on.



Why would Paul use the metaphor of getting dressed to illustrate our relationship with Christ? How might we let the treatment of our bodies get out of control on one extreme or the other? How can we regain control?

• Probably the greater problem isn’t that we make plans to get out of shape physically and spiritually but that we don’t have any plans to get and stay fit.
• We must discard anything – leisure activities, food, situations, and relationships – that promotes sin or unhealthy activities in our lives.
• We can identify areas where we are not thriving and make plans to battle those weak areas. We start by making a wholehearted commitment to line ourselves up with Christ and His standards. Out of that relationship flows the strategy and strength to thrive.

Points:

1. Christ-likeness is a Christian duty.

2. Believers are to lay aside sins related to drunkenness, sexual immorality, and strife.

3. Believers are to put on Christ as their lifestyle as if putting on a new garment.



II. AVOID THE HARMFUL – PROVERBS 23:20-21

20 Don’t associate with those who drink too much wine or with those who gorge themselves on meat. 21 For the drunkard and the glutton will become poor, and grogginess will clothe them in rags.

Most of us assume that we’re strong enough to resist anything. So we foolishly form alliances with people who drag us down. It’s a simple fact: We become like those we spend time with. If we truly want to align with Christ, we must choose to avoid harmful relationships and actions. Many Christians avoid illegal and immoral activity (1 Cor. 6:19-20). But few take seriously what may be legal and customary but not wise and good.



What would most Christians label off-limits for managing their bodies? Which activities might they treat as a gray area? Which might they embrace?


In Proverbs 23:20-21 Solomon identified two specific activities that harm our bodies: abusing alcohol and overeating. These two can easily lead to legalism and division between believers. Christians must focus not on “How much can I indulge?” but “In what way am I using body and health to glorify God?”


Though this passage does not explicitly prohibit the use of alcohol, it also does not give permission for “responsible” or “social” drinking. Believers must consider the full counsel of Scripture to answer: How would consuming alcohol glorify God? To what extent does Christ call me to avoid alcohol (Luke 1:15)?


Where do you draw the line for consuming alcohol? What factors led to your decision? In what ways did Christ lead you to make this decision?



Though many Christians are careful about the stand they take on consuming alcohol, few adhere to the same care when considering what they eat or how much they eat. In fact, according to a 2006 study by Purdue University, church members tend to be more overweight than the general population. Many of the arguments used against drinking, such as health and addiction, apply equally to overeating. Solomon coupled the two harmful activities together for a reason.



We know with our heads that overeating is bad for us. Why do we do it anyway? What is emotional eating? What would the Spirit guide us to do about that? In what ways does overeating demonstrate self-glorification instead of glorifying Christ?



We don’t want to let our lack of discipline in regards to alcohol, food, or anything else hinder our ability to live and love and glorify God. It is for this very reason that God gives us a loving church and relationships within it to lead, encourage, and walk along beside us.



How did the bad habits Solomon described reflect a fast-food culture even in that ancient time? How might Solomon step all over some self-righteous toes? Why would he equate drunkenness with overeating?

• Some boomers who wisely refrain from drinking alcohol may still not be thriving in this fast-food culture because they are abusing their bodies with poor eating habits.
• Both drunkenness and gluttony harm the body and show a lack of self-discipline and restraint.
• Don’t get caught in a debate about drinking alcohol. Use the Bible commentary to enforce the value of abstinence and get back to the focus of avoiding all things that are physically harmful. If anything, focus on overeating or refusal to set good eating habits.

Points:

1. Don’t drink alcoholic beverages.

2. Don’t eat too much.

3. Glorify God with your body.




III. ADOPT THE BENEFICIAL – DANIEL 1:8, 11-16
8 Daniel determined that he would not defile himself with the king’s food or with the wine he drank. So he asked permission from the chief official not to defile himself.

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11 So Daniel said to the guard whom the chief official had assigned to Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, 12 “Please test your servants for 10 days. Let us be given vegetables to eat and water to drink. 13 Then examine our appearance and the appearance of the young men who are eating the king’s food, and deal with your servants based on what you see.” 14 He agreed with them about this and tested them for 10 days. 15 At the end of 10 days they looked better and healthier than all the young men who were eating the king’s food. 16 So the guard continued to remove their food and the wine they were to drink and gave them vegetables.

Daniel’s homeland was Judah, but the Babylonians captured him. All he had known – family, home, and heritage – had been ripped from him. Even in this incredibly lonely and difficult situation, Daniel chose not to harm his body with the Babylonian king’s food and wine. The Hebrew word for “defile” refers to moral or ceremonial defilement. Two possibilities could have caused defilement in Daniel’s situation: First, the king would not hesitate to serve foods identified as unclean by the law of Moses (see Lev. 11:7-8; 17:10-14). Second, the food and wine served at Nebuchadnezzar’s table may have previously been associated with the worship of heathen gods. The Bible doesn’t specify the reasons, but Daniel chose to respectfully request a different diet. Daniel and other Israelites proposed eating only vegetables and water. This seemed unorthodox to the official in charge of them; he gave them only 10 days to display that the vegetarian menu was beneficial. Choosing purity and holiness resulted in evident change in the men’s’ physiques.



How did Daniel demonstrate courage in his request for a new diet? How did he demonstrate respect? What else is needed to please God in the ways we adopt a beneficial way of eating and living?


Note that the original inhabitants of earth were vegetarians until after the flood (see Gen. 1:29; 9:3). But Daniel’s example does not insinuate that followers of God should avoid meat. Daniel’s choice was based on what he understood to be God’s standards, which resulted in a heart, mind, and body that remained undefiled.


Instead of seeking the best-tasting or most-filling, we would be wise to ask, “Which foods would make me feel and live my best?” Jesus will reveal those things in our diet and lifestyle to be accepted or avoided. What beneficial foods can you easily add to your breakfast, lunch, and dinner this week?


Rather than fret about what you will eat and don’t eat, take on food as a worship adventure: How can I best honor God through what I choose?



How were Daniel and his friends surrounded by a type of fast-food culture? What were keys to Daniel’s success in adopting beneficial habits? How did Daniel demonstrate his determination at least three times a day? What happens when we exercise resolve on a continual basis? 

• Sample: keys, determined, enlisted the support of friends, made the changes respectfully.

Points:

1. Believers need to develop moral convictions based on God’s Word.

2. When confronted by choices, we should act in light of these Biblical based convictions.

3. We should act with courage no matter what the consequences.

4. Living in this way involves self-control with the help of the Lord.

5. Self-control leads to a happier and healthier life than self-indulgence.

6. Those who discipline their lives when they are young can give their whole life to the Lord.

Prayer of Commitment

Lord, when I am tempted, may Your Spirit give me strength to exercise self-control. Amen

Well, there's nothing like getting right down to a Baptist point at the beginning of a new series. Next week our discussion gets even hotter as we look at sexual immorality as one of the issues taking our culture off course today. Some questions out there are: "Why does the church make such a big deal with sensuality in the culture, is it really any of our business?" and "Can't you stay away from sexual immorality if you just stay true to your wife?". Maybe your thoughts are that this is just too embarrassing and improper to talk about in church or maybe you're thinking, we're too old to worry about sensual temptation. Well, (I've already said that) this is our second in a series of cultural challenges to discuss - so we'll see you next week!


In His Love,


David & Susan

Happy New Year!

Class Lesson December 25, 2011

Hey Gang,

Well, it's Christmas Day and we want to wish each of you all the joy and happiness that this special time of celebration brings to those who know and believe in the REASON for the season!

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Merry Christmas!

In His Love,

 

David & Susan